Have had sex but never given a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

This is my first boyfriend and I had sex with him before I ever have given a blowjob or handjob. Normally this isn't an issue because we love to have sex but I'm starting my period this week and feel bad that we can't. So I want to treat him to a handjob or blowjob but don't know how. He knows I never have given either before...so do I just start it and ask him to give me pointers along the way?

[TheAnswerer]

You should ask him to give you pointers all the way, because we can't know what will please him the most. Some guys like it fast, some guys like it slow. Some guys like it rough, some guys hate it that way. You get what I mean?

But things that you can do are eye contact (which is really sexy) and body language (make him feel that you really enjoy doing it with your body language).

Also, one tip: NEVER stop when he starts ejaculating. That is really frustrating. Keep going for another 15 seconds or so.

Try to speed up as he comes closer to ejaculating.

Another tip can be using your mouth, tongue and hand at the same time.

Hands --> Giving a regular handjob.

Mouth --> Giving a blowjob at the same time.

Tongue --> Lick the tip of his penis while it is inside your mouth.

Do these, and you'll be fine.

[Anonymous]

lick the WHOLE DI CK first, grab the shaft jerk it nicely, suck the shaft, swirl your tongue, and always swallow!