Have you ever been deep throated?

I can deep throat, but have only done so on my fiancé. He's 9.5 inches hard. I want to make it more pleasurable for him, but I need some pointers. I ask him what he likes, but he said no one has ever been able to deep throat him before so he doesn't really know. I'll get him off doing it, & I'll swallow, but I'd like to make him come faster & better in the process... Any tips?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't choke. No one believes me when I say this but my ex was 10 inches flacid and 11-12 inches hard. I'm not kidding. He took these weird ass pills (which he kept from me? he would take one every time we would make out and I didn't find out about this until after we broke up) and I only gave him head once because it was so hard. He had a freaking monstrous d*** and it was actually disgusting. I actually bit him when trying to deep throat and when I got half his d*** down my throat I gagged and almost choked on it. He got soft immediately when I bit him and apparently HE was embarrassed for getting soft. The only way he came in my mouth was when I sucked on his head only and jacked him off. I only gave him head once in our relationship because it was so awful.

    So I guess do what I did? I don't know. Good luck and whatever you do - don't bite him like I did!

  • Wow he is huge that much hurt you during sex! I try to deep throat but it never works because I always gag. I have the stuff that I got from a sex toy party where you put it on your tongue before a blowjob and it stops the gagging but it does not work for me that well.

    • I haven't had sex with him (I'm waiting till marriage), but I don't imagine I'll be able to take all of him in at first...

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  • Deep throating is more about the visual than the feeling. It actually provides less feeling than if you concentrate on the first couple of inches so if you're looking to make him come faster, don't deepthroat.

    • I've learned that I can't just deep throat him to get him off. I have to use my hand, tongue & jut plain oral too. It's just hard because I'm trying to stimulate the whole shaft, but it seems most of his nerves are in the first 3-4 inches like you said...

    • What works way better and allows you to get the rhythm and speed necessary is to use both hands tightly wrapped around his shaft, one above the other index finger of one touching the pinky finger of the other, then your mouth on top, with your lips always in contact with your top hand, then go up and down in unison that way. Make sure you lick your hands and his shaft liberally first and the effect is what every guy expects deep throating will feel like (but actually doesn't), and it's awesome.

    • I do that, but I only use one one hand half the time - the other hand I'm playing with his balls. I always lick my hand because it's easier when it's wet, & he says it feels better. I'll also go back & forth between deep throat, a hand job while I suck on his balls - it seems to drive him insane! ;)

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  • I'm nowhere near 9.5, and my wife still only gets about half in.

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  • dislocate your jaw?

    • What?

  • While deep throating feels great, you don't always get a good rythm. Having decent stroke speed and rythm are key, so focus on depth with speed and using your hand in a timely matter when catching a breath.

  • Nope I haven't..and I do not feel deprived...and sorry..cannot get you any tips...can try me again on something else?

    • No biggie if you can't give me any tips reguarding this matter. You've helped me out plenty of times before ;)

    • HA! Glad to be of service...never will be on bjs...however...o.O

  • I have a hard time believing this post...

    • Why is that?

  • 9.5?!?!?! that thing is a snake! dear lord! D:

    • Lol. Yeah, he's the only guy I've ever done stuff with, so I'm not sure what's average, but he is big though!

  • 9.5 inches in your throat? O_O...Well there goes my self esteem. I'm only a third as big. Goodbye cruel world :(

    • lol its okay love

    • Yes, don't feel bad! :'(

    • really? : /

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