Have you ever cried during or after sex?

If so why? And was it a few tears on your pillow or full on balling. I've shed a lot of tears after sex myself so I'm wondering what your reasons are.
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  • My last Girlfriend had been molested as a child and never was able to climax as a result. Her previous BFs didn't care so they got theirs and assumed she was broken. Well I spent a long time taking things to the next step physically, building trust and comfort at every step. After about 3 months of living together, we were fooling around in a way so that I was holding her against my chest, kissing her, and working on her with my free hand. All of a sudden she gasped and came really, really hard. She said it was the most intensely beautiful and cathartic feeling she'd ever known and cried tears of joy while I kissed her and held her.

    • Forgot the great follow up, she was always multi orgasmic with me after that. When we had sex, for every one time I came, she came 5 times at least. That was fun.

    • awe

  • Once. My first love and I were having sex for the last time. Afterwards I laid there, still inside her, and sobbed a little while I hugged her. Then she got dressed and walked out of my life.

    • that's harsh

    • You must have been feeling a really intense emotional connection with her, sucks that she did that

    • She was sick of me, she was entitled to leave. That's what I learned, there are no guarantees no matter many times someone says "love" or "always". I've left all the GFs since then, don't want to be dumped again. Those later GFs can thank the first one for that.

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  • Uhh yesterday actually. My boyfriend and I had been fighting a lot, and nearly broke up. We made up and are making it work. But we were hanging out and ended up having sex. I got a little too emotional I guess. I don't know, it was weird. He like picked me up and we were hugging and kissing while he was inside me and I just started crying. He looked at me like I was insane and asked me why I was crying hahah. I said my eyes were watering though. :p

    It's funny I was just going to ask this question. Figure out if I was normal or not. Haha

    • It happens, sex is just so emotional for me. I don't do that anymore but when I first started having sex I didn't know how to react to it. Its like feeling a million things at once and I'm very intuitive so I have immediate emotional responses.

    • I can relate! Thanks for best answer (:

  • I've cried while masterbating to my ex's voice over Skype. So beautiful, he was talking to me while I was plowing myself, imagining he was doing it himself, I wanted nothing more than for him to actually be there in person, sharing the physical moment with me. I missed him lots.

    I didn't like, wail and scream while balling my eyes out or anything, I just shed a few tears at my climax, silently. I told him about it afterward, and he said he could tell I was crying, even though it wasn't all that obvious.

  • Even though this is embarrassing I have cried after sex.. It is very difficult for me to climax sometimes when I am with a man.. So it gets SO frustrating when I can't.. So one time I cried afterwards.. And it was just because I was angry at myself for not being able to.. LOL

    • So, I did this exact thing recently. Glad someone can relate! haha, I felt ridiculous!

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  • Nope, sorry, I'm not like that. Though I am very curious what YOUR reasons are for crying so much after sex. It seems so... odd to me.

    • It was a phase I guess, I thought it was all the emotions of love making and I didn't know how to let it other than to cry. And I think subconsciously I wanted more attention after sex than for him to cuddle me while he watched tv

    • And you figured getting his attention by sobbing was a good thing?

    • I didn't think that at the time but I was 19 and not ready for the emotional heaviness of sex

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  • An ex boyfriend did so once after the first time we did it. I have always wondered why ever since. He couldn't/wouldn't give me an answer.

  • I had a girl that started full on crying two different times right when I entered her.

    She said she was just so happy and it was a good thing.

    It really freaked me out at the time, but now I remember it fondly. Those nights were especially good for both of us.

  • Cant say I have or will. I usually have a big smile after lol.

  • Nope. Never have. I can't really understand why anyone would, just seems weird to me.

  • Nope never happen ..

  • nope. never have

  • Lots of girls cry after anal, not from physical pain but just the whole feeling violated. Main reason I am not into anal...

  • i cry during and after masturbation...( a virgin)

    • is it because you feel ashamed or regretful, or is it just tears of pleasure.

    • pure pleasure,its so much relieving.

  • Maybe cried cause I didn't get sex. Lol

  • Sometimes I would cry a few tears when I had sex with my first love, not so much now but it still happens. Just depends on the "sex mood" I guess.

  • Nope. Never cried after or during sex. I've never even known any women that cried during or after sex either.

  • wtf>? why would I cry?

  • nope. sex is a beautiful thing and unless you cry when you are happy I don't understand why anyone would... although on a TV show the other day they were talking about a guy who cried during and after having sex with a girl and "became" gay after.

  • After and just a bit I don't know I guess all the emotions (: