Have you ever fantasized about watching your partner have sex with someone else?

a friend of yours maybe? a person you saw on the street or someone from work? i wouldn't call it a fantasy, but I did think about what it would be like to watch my ex do it with one of my friends, though I never ever ever wanted it to actually happen.
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  • When I was with my ex, we knew it wasn't a lasting relationship, it was just for fun and to pass the time. With him, I might have actually tried it, though I wouldn't want it to be just him I'm sharing. I would want my turn or something for myself to do (or some one).

    I have thought of it before. It's an interesting concept. Along the same vein as swingers, with voyeurism attached.

    With a man I care about though, no I don't share.

    • ok coo.

  • I like the IDEA of watching my guy with another dude [and he's all for this], but when the idea leaves the realms of fantasy and moves into reality, I don't think it's something I could handle. Just because I don't like to share and I wouldn't be okay with doing so. -Especially- with another woman, but even with a man I don't think I could be okay with it no matter how casual it was.

    • ok that's coo.

  • Hmmm I don't think I would be into it really, because if we are dating, I am his and he is mine hah, I donno that's just what I think.

    • its coo.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm the same as you, I've thought about it before and how I would feel. The jealousy and discomfort would be reeeally tough to handle and I don't think I'll ever do it, but the thought at least has a certain something that makes it intriguing to think about. I don't know what it is, but just thinking about it is like feeling jealous but excited about it at the same time.

    I dunno, but yeah I don't think I'd ever suggest it or let it happen.

    • like you said, same haha

  • My girlfriend has spoke 'dirty' to me a few times before and involved some of her girl friends which I found a huge turn on. I'd never actually want it to happen though & vice versa.

    • coo.

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  • I can't imagine the thought of that ever turning me on :P I'm not one to share, even in fantasy.

    • lol ok.

  • no that's mroe like something I have nightmares about

    • lol I can see why.

  • It's apparently a common fetish to want to watch his girl get ****** by another guy, It's called cuckolding I think but I wouldn't want to try it

    • same here.

  • i don't share my man with anyone ..am that selfish.

    • haha coo.

    • good! I think this fetish is more common in men than women, not sure why anyone would like it but I don't think its something women get into until thego out with a creepy guy who likes it

    • (stole this from a friend) two things I never share: My man My Food (when I'm hungry)

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  • No and now that disgusting thought is in my head. :(

    • o sorry about that man.

    • No biggie. Lol

  • No. But I fantasied myself having sex with someone else. does that make me a bad person? :/

    • hmm, kinda.

    • but why should he get to? doesn't that make him a bad person?

    • well that wasn't the Q. the Q was if you have ever thought about watching him with another girl, not if he's ever fantasized about him and another girl.

  • No. Never ever.

    • coo haha

  • I've never thought about it, but now that you've mentioned it...I don't think I'd ever want to do that.

    • haha ok.

    • i hate to ask, but if you don't mind...could you look at a question I asked earlier? it only got one answer...

      link

    • yeah sure.