Ive slept with 2 married women, both were older than me, one was about 10 years older, one was 18 years older. The one that was 10 years older I met at a bar, in a town neither of us lived in, although I lived there when I was younger, We waited in line together to get into the bar, I was meeting friends there who hadn't shown up yet so I had a few drinks with her and her friend. Somehow the conversation moved to sex and got to dirty talk real soon. We went back to the girls hotel room, running into one of my friends on the way. The 4 of us went in, I had sex with the one I had been dirty talking with at the bad and my friend did the one he met on the way to the hotel. The girls were both married and told each other not to tell anyone when they got back to their city. We never talked after that, I don't even remember her name. My friend and I left after we were done and had a drink with them in their room.
The other one was married but separated, I thought they were divorced. We had sex a few times then found out that she was still married and he worked out of town but still lived there, He was gone most nights of the week and when he was there she slept on the couch. After I found out they still lived together I told her I didn't think we should keep on sleeping together. We were coworkers so it was a little awkward at work sometimes but we remained friends. Her and the husband actually started working things out shortly afterward and she said that me saying that I didn't want to keep the sex going because she was still married and I didn't want to ruin any change of them getting back together made her try harder to work things out, which they did. I went from homewrecker to relationship saver.
Yes. I found out after the fact. She told me she didn't, and then afterward she was looking all down and depressed so I asked her what's up, and she told me she has a boyfriend :S. It's f***ed up. I'd take if back if I could. When you do something like that, you know you're probably inflicting pain on the other person in the relationship. And you're doing that for no particular reason other than "you're horny". Personally I want no part in that.
I wasn't too happy when I found out. I did respect her still. I don't know her reasons for cheating or lieing, it's still wrong, but I don't feel in place to judge nor would I want to if I did happen to be perfect. And no, we didn't get in a relationship.
Silver lining is the sex was great ^^
At least you asked... so many people will just go through with it without even trying to ask. Those people are just as sh*tty as the cheater imo. But if you at least try and find out and they lie/hide it than that's none on you.
Yah it's not a cool thing to do. Nobody walks out a winner from those situations.
I have never KNOWINGLY had sex with someone who was taken. I won't be the 'other woman', there's no honor in that. Helping someone cheat is basically just as bad as cheating. It demonstrates a lack of empathy/compassion and respect for other people. I've been more or less lied to, led on, conveniently left out of the loop, and slept with someone who was seeing someone else, unbeknownst to me. As soon as I found out, I was done with them. I don't respect cheating at all, nor do I respect lying, so yeah, I'd say I lost a good deal of respect for the person I'd been sleeping with. I absolutely would not date them. If they're going to 'covertly' f.uck around on their partner by having sex with me, why the hell wouldn't they do the same thing to me later on with someone else when I have no clue? Nah, just not a good idea. Asking for trouble.
i have .. there is a boy ..we are something like f*** buddies ... he have cheated all his girlfriends with me..i took him from 3 or 4 girls ..i m not sure why I do this ..every time he has a new girlfried I ve sex with him ..its bad I know but I can't resiste..
Get some help.
wow
You jezebel! lol
Yeah I have... I wouldn't ever do it if I knew the girl though. If she's not someone I know, it's not ME doing something wrong, it's HIM. Sorry, but I'm just being honest!
But if a guy is married, or has kids I don't go there under any circumstances!
These down votes are probably from the same girls who would blame the other woman and not their boyfriend if he cheated on them. Think about it!
The women should be blamed too. If she knows he's cheating, how is she absolved? Same if it was flipped. You're the accomplice. The accomplices to crimes get jail time too. Why act all innocent like you're doing nothing wrong?
Plus, if one day you get a boyfriend, and a girl approaches him with your mindset, how would you feel? So it's OK if he has sex with these girls and basically cheats on you? These girls won't be blamed? Just a thought :)
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Because my boyfriend told me too
I never really thought about respect in regards to the other gf's...
No.. well.. a few years later I sorta did with one.
"Why did you do it?" I kinda liked the girls.
"Do you respect the girl afterwards?" Yes, of course.
"Did you get into a relationship with the girl/guy?" No way, that's not my style.
Payback is a bitch!
Never have, never would. That's f***ing disgusting behavior. And if you didn't make the effort to find out if the person already had a mate, you're a scumbag.
i'm actually not sure. I don't ask - I assume they know what they are doing..
I have not, and I never would.
Never have and never will.
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.By the way these answers goes to show you how cruel people can be...
Unfortunately yes. I had sex with one of my friend's bf's a few years back. We were drunk and just did it in the heat of the moment. I was wrong.
yes I do it all the time, I love sex what can I say!
I was with an older married woman. It was great!
Unfortunately yes. I know it sounds bad but there is a lot more to the story. Lol
Yes my friend's wife
Why did you do it? We traid spouses
Do you respect the girl afterwards? Yes
Did you get into a relationship with the girl/guy? Been traiding spouses for a very long time
nope but I have had fantasies about it
No I never have.
Did it with 4 girls who had a boyfriend and 3 who were married.
1st : Was still in high school and those days you don't really question or care about such things.
2nd : We were participants of a study abroad, just happened.
3rd : She was lonely as her boyfriend was in Iraq, first started out as dancing partners and it simply progressed to it.
4th : We were both on holiday in Thailand, met her at a bar and sorta hit it off as a holiday romance type thing.
As for the girls who were married ,
1st : She was an ex-gf, was a one for old-time sake as she missed the fullness she used to experience with my bigger size penis.
2nd : Was a cuckold fantasy.
3rd : She was having some marital issues and got together at a moment when she decided not to restrain herself. She regretted it though.
No, because I'm not a d***.
kudos to a fellow man with real integrity and honor.
GOD BLESS YOU
Yes a few times... when the boyfriends are jerks I comfort them ;)
I did when I was in hs.
yes with my sisters bf! wer at it almost a year now!
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