Have you ever had unprotected sex on a one night stand?

[lonlehube]

What did you do afterwards? If this has happened to you please feel free to share what happened.

[Anonymous]

I was having a flirtation with a girl at work . She happened to stop to pee at a roadside rest area where I happened to have stopped also . After the initial surprise at meeting, I pushed the flirtation a bit, told her how much I enjoyed occasionally brushing up against her . She said well there is nobody here now, you won't have to be so careful . I touched her all over, she kissed me, mutual groping followed . I asked if I could see what I was feeling and although very shy, she ended up letting me see it all . A few days later, at work, she said that wasn't fair, " I didn't get to see anything" Well I told her I would be stopping there again on a certain date and time and if she wanted, she could stop also . I wore only shorts and a tee . When she arrived I told her I had a surprise for her, led her behind a private screen and made her close her eyes . Then I dropped the shorts, pulled off the tee and said ok look . She opened her eyes and I was totally naked and hard as a rock . She panicked, was shocked, and so turned on . She paused me into the ladies room and I sat down on top of the toilet . She surprised me and stripped naked . I thought we would maybe do some mutual masturbation, but she came and sat on my lap, grabbed my penis and I was in her before I knew what was happening . MMMM it was so good,After, I was so scared of an std I drove to the nearest drug store bought a bottle of alcohol and did everything I could to sterilize my penis . We were lucky no problems .

[breese]

LOL that is so funny. (drove to the nearest drug store bought a bottle of alcohol and did everything I could to sterilize my penis )

[SexGod1]

I'm getting wood just thinking about spontaneous sex! :)

[jacquesvol]

Alcohol on your penis? Poor guy....

[Anonymous]

I have. You don't plan it.

Basically you spend the next few weeks examining your d*** under a microscope and freaking out at the smallest change. Get tested. It was nothing. Then they laugh at you at the clinic behind your back.

It is not worth it. Not knowing for 6 months if you're OK. Yeah, 6 months, because that's how long it takes for HIV to show up in your system. So you need to get tested 6 months after. No sex is worth all that stress.

[Opinion Owner]

I washed my d*** with listerine too. I can scratch that off my "to do" list

[delilah89]

My case is exactly as yours, it was unplanned. and no matter how many times I asked the guy for a condom, he kept swearing he was healthy. I trusted him at the moment because I've known him for 3 yrs, But waking up today, I've learned from my mistake. am gonna do the right thing and get tested in 6 months. It was my first time.

[Anonymous]

Yep . It was one of those crazy things, every time I think about it I feel like it's part of a movie or something . I was on vacation with my 2 best girlfriends in Mexico . We met some girls earlier in the week that told us about a party they were going to in the city so we decided to tag along . There was a ton of people but At about midnight we meet this group of guys that basically sandwiched all of us and we ended up dancing with them for the rest of the night . It was mutual attraction between me and one of them and we took it all the way . We were grinding on the dance floor, and we made out and were all over each other against the back wall of the place . We sat down at about one and he had his fingers in me while we pretended to be talking, we couldn't take our hands off of each other and finally we went to the third floor, ripped each others clothes off and had sex, completely unprotected, over and over and over again . I went back to the states and got myself checked out completely . I was lucky, not pregnant and no std, but I don't know if I'd do it again, even if it was amazing .

[SexGod1]

That sounds sexy! lol

[Anonymous]

Yes...once in college. Was drinking with my best friend and a couple of guys she knew. After consuming way too many drinks, she started having sex in the room with one of the guys. It was dumb but I let the other one pressure me into sex. He didn't have a condom but I was too drunk to worry about it. All 4 of us were on the bed together doing our thing and it was kind of erotic to tell the truth. He did manage to pull out at the end and finish on my stomach but I was very worried about being pregnant when I sobered up the next day. Luckily it turned out okay.

[quanni]

It happened to me and I got really scared so I decided to schedule a doctor's appointment to check for any possible diseases. Luckily I had nothing and I learned a lesson never go unprotected unless you and the other person have proof that neither one of you have a STD.

[katiesmuff]

I would like to know how do you accidentally have unprotected sex?

[jacquesvol]

That "proof" can never be 100% valid. In case of HIV , the test just gives the situation as it was 3 months earlier, without accounting for possible contamination since. That's why you have to wait a few months to have an HIV test. A virgin with a heavy rubber hymen, bleeding the bed red on her first time could be infected through oral or anal sex (or at birth, from her HIV+ mother or father)

[Aditya]

This has happened twice with me . But every time I promise I wouldn't do so again but guess the pleasure of ramming her with naked skin is something which just can't be "forgone"

Guess the aftermath is when the humor breaks free, till the time you are insane it all seems to be ecstasy, a sweet fulfilling experience and when the sanity starts poring in then the fretting starts . But I was darn lucky both the times . ;-)

[SexGod1]

Yeah, I know what it's like to barely be able to control yourself!

[downunder21]

wow so many people that won't do one night stands. I'm sure they have done them b4 though.

relationships are without a doubt better, but its fun to have a one night fling if you don't have a partner.

[johnsmith2116]

Yes, and I was paranoid afterwards. I'll not do it again.

[ZoeAdams]

I did, and wound up getting pregnant.

[jacquesvol]

It nearly happened to me , long time ago: flirting heavily with her since quite a time and she was more than willing. We had talked about having sex and she insisted that it be without condom if it happened. We ended making out, I fingered her deeply and felt something on the cervix, but I'm no gyno. In any case, we had much fun but no sex that evening. A few weeks later she dropped me a word that her gyno told her she had genital warts.

[jacquesvol]

WHY you should NEVER have unprotected sex on a one night stand:

Sexually transmitted diseases infections among American teenagers (NYT article):

link

[Anonymous]

I've had quite a few amazing and very hot one night stands where each time it was unprotected sex. Everything turned out absolutely fine each time and had a clean bill of health :-)

I find the naughtiness of it a complete turn on and loved every minute of it. I've cum inside each woman I've had a one night stand with multiple times in the night ;-)

[Anonymous]

advice?