One of the reasons men have a difficult time keeping an erection is due to the pressure of not believing they are a man if they can't keep it up. As a result the more they worry about it the more difficult it is to have, hence the popularity of viagra is not because it is really needed, but because men think they need it.
A softon can be fun to play with too. For oral pleasures a woman can certainly fit it in her mouth more easily. When I am not erect I will use my penis like a paint brush on my partners clitoris. The soft head of my penis has an especially soft touch that my fingers certainly don't have.
Enjoy the journey and unless there is a physical reason that he is not able to keep an erection then he will get one.
Yeah, that kind of problem can be a downward spiral: it starts out being nerves and then becomes about the worry of not staying hard. But in the end, I bet it won't be a big deal. Just don't focus on it and keep things spontaneous and fun and relaxed. Maybe wake him up with kisses in the middle of the night and once he's turned on give it a try. All it's gonna take is one successful round, the realization that everything is fine, and the worry will melt away and the hardness will stay.
I agree. Don't make a big deal out of it and things will probably come right. If he was able to maintain an erection with his previous girlfriend chances are it's not something physical, but if the problem persists even when he's relaxed and you've followed all other advice, he might need some nasal spray or some such thing.
The first time, nerves. Now, he's probably insecure and wondering what you're thinking of the situation. Be supportive, make sure that he knows it's not a huge deal, that you're not gonna leave him over it or anything. And try to get him to calm down.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't know why he'd be having this problem since he's young enough but maybe in his mind he's not ready to have sex with you or doesn't feel comfortable in having sex yet. Maybe he's thinking that he doesn't know how to make you come and that it won't be a good experience with you. Even though he had a girlfriend 10 months ago you don't know how his sex went with her or if he even had sex with her. Yeah he could be insecure and maybe you need to get closer to each other emotionally then you now are.
get him to have a few drinks first. Not too many, but enough to calm his nerves.
Or you could slip some horney goat weed in his food. But be prepared to not be able to walk properly for a while. :P
But nah seriously. Having 2-3 drinks will get rid of the nerves and cause him to be more adventerous.
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