He didn't want me to finish his BJ off?

[Anonymous]

we were lying together in bed for hours...didn't have sex. cuddling a lot, sleeping together, holding hands, talking, stopping now and then to make out or feel a bit. i was giving him head and he said it was really good but then suddenly told me to stop because he couldn't take it anymore.he told me the whole experience was great. why didn't he want me to make him finish? he told me he needed to calm down so we could just lie together because he knew I wasn't ready for sex but then why wouldn't he want me to finish him off?

[Anonymous]

maybe he got scared, is hiding some thing like an STD? maybe like you said he wasn't ready for sex yet. he probably initial got excited at first and then realized he was not ready for it.

it happened to me, I let a girl give me a bj and got scared and never let her finished it. that's because it didn't feel right sleeping with her on the first night. I got scared.

it all depends how long you have being going out with him? to get the real answer you really need to ask him. I would want my girlfriend to ask me anything? if I did something she didn't like? or can't understand why I behaved in that way.

i would be more worried that she can't trust me, in giving her a truthful answer. if you want a fully satisfied relationship with someone, its all about communication.

none of can answer for your boyfriend. sorry to sound patronizing to you.

[Asker]

he isn't my boyfriend, at least not yet. he wanted sex because we got carried away but understood that I am not ready yet and that I just wanted to lie in bed together.

[Opinion Owner]

maybe he didn't want to take advantage you. he probably just got carried away at first, because us men do get carried away very quickly. and he thought I can't do this her. maybe he wants to have respect for you.

[Ugliness]

For one thing guys are often conditioned that girls would rather "spit" than "swallow" and maybe he didn't want to have you make that choice. I don't really care since I've given plenty of blowjobs to plenty of guys. The act is exciting (if he doesn't force my head down onto him) but the taste leaves something to be desired IMHO. I'd rather spit.

I guess if you're really gung ho, he need reassurance that it's OK.

[ElijahCynicism]

Maybe he can't come from blowjobs? You know like, some girls can't come from oral? I dunno.

[boxer9986]

sound like he was a bit shy and didn't no if he should come in your mouth or not

[MrNameless]

Maybe he didn't want to come so fast and wanted some self-control.

[sexylexy123]

he could be shy?