He doesn't pull out?

Ok so I've been dating this guy for a couple of months. We've been having sex for over a while now. The thing is, the first time we did it, well I did it, he didn't pull out. Even when I warned him to. He said it wasn't a big deal so we got over it. Now we usually have sex but we don't use condoms and or pills. He just pulls out and we haven't had any problems. People say it's bad but he prefers it that way, and I like him a lot. Anyways, I'm not changing my mind about how we do it, I will still keep it this way, whatever the comments. I think the guy should have it more like he wants it because they generally do all the work... I'm just saying, could we continue like this and still be okay because we haven't had any problems. Thanks!
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  • You'll be pregnant before you now it, and given you're under 18 you probably be raising a child as a single parent or passing your child off to your parents to raise.

    Are you mentally and financially prepared to raise a child? Because if not how selfish you both are to have such little respect for the magnitude of bringing a new life into this world. Keep taking the risk and you're going to become just another statistic in the group called teenage pregnancy, and sadly it will be an innocent baby who pays the price for your carelessness.

  • Jesus Christ no, you WILL get pregnant. No if's, no but's one day you will get pregnant.

    I'm having a hard time believing this isn't a bullshit post because you seem to think a guy can do what he wants with your body because you are an inactive sexual partner, and that is just fucking crazy. You must have very little self worth to do that.

    I hope to god you never have children because your stupidity needs to die out, not breed more like you.

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  • Pulling out is like 64% or something. If you like those odds...

  • Good ol pull and pray! Like Russian roulette!!!

    • Go on the pull little one...

    • Pill****

  • Maybe you should use the pill or else you'll just be another young girl with a baby, and that's compeltely immature and irresponsible because there is methods of birth control, but instead of using them, you're acting like it's no big deal, but what happens if you end up pregnant? Your choice, but be prepared for consequences in the end because of it.

  • How many times are you going to let him do it and say you can't change anything about the situation? You are going to be pregnant very soon and since you don't believe in abortion you're going to have a baby. Prepare yourself for a lot of expense and heartache.

  • And this is why kids shouldn't be allowed to have sex. If you get pregnant will he be willing to carry the kid for 9 months? I hope this isn't a serious question

  • continuing like this might lead to pregnancy!! he is really immature to say that its not a big deal! and YOU? can't you use your logic?

  • Hey it's your body but remember you can get pregnant from precum. So If you like baby's and STDs then the pull out method is for you. It's your body dont think that you have to do anything. He gets to fuck you. Who cares if he doesn't want to wear a condom. But remember that condoms only stop like 97% of pregnancies

  • OMG! Pulling out? Do NOT be that foolish! Pulling out does little. There are MILLIONS of sperm in the semen that he releases into you BEFORE he finishes. MILLIONS!! You ARE going to get pregnant.

    PULLING OUT DOES NOT HELP! You also expose yourself to any disease he might have picked up. MOST Venereal diseases have NO SYMPTOMS MOST OF THE TIME. OMG!!! You are making BIG MISTAKES!

    Please spend some time on the web and search for these things. Go on the Pill. Make him wear a condom. ... pulling out indeed... argh!

  • Sometimes some cum will come out before actually ejaculating. So that little bit that came out during the sex contains thousands of.. well babies. Maybe just start taking the pill :) it works great for me and have had no complications, or if you won't remember maybe get the bar in your arm :)

  • It has been proven over & over, "The Pull Out Method" does not prevent unwanted pregnancies or stds. Please stop being so irresponsible. People never take the children into consideration that could be affected by their selfish actions.

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