He doesn’t wash his dick properly?

My uncircumcised boyfriend doesn’t wash his dick properly when he showers. It has a slight fishy smell and when we have unprotected sex, my vagina smells like his dick for the next 3 days. He says ‘but I washed my dick.’ I don’t know how to tell him that he isn’t washing it properly. How do I tell him?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • There is a natural oily buildup between foreskin and shaft. Just like with a woman's V, it mixes with trapped pee and gets funky in a hurry. I know that this is "mothering" but you are over 30 and guiding him in in your best interest. Do it for him to teach him..
    Retract (pull back) his "sleeve" as far as it will go.
    Use a face cloth with mild unscented (if possible) soap or body wash.
    Wash the entire length including head, shaft and inside-out "sleeve".
    Rinse it thoroughly. Gotta get the soap out before his sleeve rolls down.

  • wash it for him! omg that's sick and gross and if you touch it again you're just as gross. hygiene is essential especially when it comes to sex.

    • I’m not going to wash his dick for him everytime we have sex...

    • i suppose it's obvious enough if you can't tell him it bothers you then it doesn't really bother you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Ohh gross, the foreskin must be pushed back and cleaned, because there will be huge deposits of smegma and most often than not it would become a harboring ground for bacterial infections. If you can't say to him , I would suggest you to take him to a sex specialist who could teach him some hygiene.

  • Find a video that'll teach him how wash his uncircumcised penis thoroughly and send it to him. If he remains stubborn, tell him you're gonna get an infection if he doesn't do it properly and that he'll have to wear condoms from now on or get a circumcision.

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  • Just tell him "You're not washing it properly."
    It's not a big deal I'm sure just communicate with him.
    I'm sure if your vagina smelled, he'd tell you to do a better job.

  • Tell him to start washing his dick properly or get circumcised.

  • Learn him how to do it. Help him doing it.
    But pull the foreskin back before it gets hard, otherwise it can be painful.

  • Honestly there is no subtle way to tell him, you just have to be honest and tell him! If he insists that he does wash properly then maybe his pre-cum is really strong smelling and leaving an obvious trace; changing his diet can help or maybe he is on medication that is doing it!

  • This is not just for balls, it can work on tally wackers too.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bxjYaq0MtQ
  • It could be what he's eating.

  • Just get in the shower with him and "wash" him

  • what do you mean by not properly washing it. like he doesn't wash the glans or what?

    • Not pulling back his foreskin and washing his dick...

    • ewww. protected sex it is then. dude wants to give you an infection

  • Threaten to withdraw sex. Bet that makes a improvement happen

  • Eeeeew

  • Help him wash it before sex then he won't have this problem

  • Get in the shower with him and was it for him

  • Just tell him straight, to wash it properly. Or shower with him, and pull back his foreskin, and wash it for him.

  • Its probably not even a hygiene issue but a dietary issue.

  • How about just showe with him before sex and including in the foreplay
    If you are running the shower gel around the head he will log that too

  • Wash it for him

  • You are disgusting

  • be glad your boyfriend has his entire penis

  • Just be up front and blunt. He could be carrying bacteria that can seriously mess with your vaginas health