He doesn’t wash his dick properly?

Question

My uncircumcised boyfriend doesn’t wash his dick properly when he showers. It has a slight fishy smell and when we have unprotected sex, my vagina smells like his dick for the next 3 days. He says ‘but I washed my dick.’ I don’t know how to tell him that he isn’t washing it properly. How do I tell him?

Dargil · Accepted Answer

There is a natural oily buildup between foreskin and shaft. Just like with a woman's V, it mixes with trapped pee and gets funky in a hurry. I know that this is "mothering" but you are over 30 and guiding him in in your best interest. Do it for him to teach him..
Retract (pull back) his "sleeve" as far as it will go.
Use a face cloth with mild unscented (if possible) soap or body wash.
Wash the entire length including head, shaft and inside-out "sleeve".
Rinse it thoroughly. Gotta get the soap out before his sleeve rolls down.

Sevenpointfive · Accepted Answer

wash it for him! omg that's sick and gross and if you touch it again you're just as gross. hygiene is essential especially when it comes to sex.

Vedika08 · Accepted Answer

Ohh gross, the foreskin must be pushed back and cleaned, because there will be huge deposits of smegma and most often than not it would become a harboring ground for bacterial infections. If you can't say to him , I would suggest you to take him to a sex specialist who could teach him some hygiene.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Find a video that'll teach him how wash his uncircumcised penis thoroughly and send it to him. If he remains stubborn, tell him you're gonna get an infection if he doesn't do it properly and that he'll have to wear condoms from now on or get a circumcision.

ChrisTruthseeker · Answer

Just tell him "You're not washing it properly." It's not a big deal I'm sure just communicate with him. I'm sure if your vagina smelled, he'd tell you to do a better job.

aialex · Answer

Tell him to start washing his dick properly or get circumcised.

jacquesvol · Answer

Learn him how to do it. Help him doing it. But pull the foreskin back before it gets hard, otherwise it can be painful.

Giggletr0n · Answer

Honestly there is no subtle way to tell him, you just have to be honest and tell him! If he insists that he does wash properly then maybe his pre-cum is really strong smelling and leaving an obvious trace; changing his diet can help or maybe he is on medication that is doing it!