He gave me three noticable hickies.

I have just started sleeping with this a guy about a month ago. Until last night he gave me 3 hickies on my neck. I didn't realize through all the hot sex we were having. Is he starting to get serious with me? I mean reason for giving a hickey is making a statement that you are taken right?
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  • he's trying to give you more pleasure but honestly leaving a hickey is not nice because they don't look good but you could try to cover them up... I always get my neck sucked on and gently bitten but I ask the guys to not leave a mark because it becomes a hassle for me to cover it up later on (I have been in situations where the guy just couldn't stop and left a mark and I had to cover it up with cover up and my hair)...

    he might have a possessive hold on you or he just wants to please you, just do what I do and ask him to suck gently and in different spots so he doesn't leave a mark... if he gets mad then he is possessive, if not then he was just trying to give you some extra pleasure besides the sex

  • After like 15 hickeys are usually more of an accidental thing, for me at least. My man gets them so easy, it kind of sucks because I am sure he hates going to work with them. I have gotten better at giving them where his clothes cover though. I can seriously suck on him for two seconds and he has the darkest hickey ever.

  • well my boyfriend will give me a hickey occasionally but the good thing is he sucks at it so they are always barely visible no matter how long he sucks on me hahaha

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  • A hickey doesn't mean anything for me. The times I have given a hickey it was more by accident than as a statement. Although sometimes it was just for fun.

    If you are already having sex I would think that would be a stronger indicator that things are serious more than the hickeys.

  • No, it is making a statement that are closely affiliated with someone who engages in childish behavior. Hickies are an immature thing seldom given or gotten by anyone beyond their early teens.

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  • its a sign of a whore, sorry but it is. And he is degrading you. Its also very disrespectful if you go home with that on ur neck.

    • We are still dating to this day. doesn't give me hickies anymore. He never treated me like a whore. It was an insecurity thing that we resolved.

  • well wikipedia say its a bruise from bursting blood vessels in the neck. I'd tell you to confront him and get him to stop or leave him. he's either immature or violent.