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He had an orgasm but didn't ejaculate?

I'm very young (17/18) and I gave my first hand job to my boyfriend today. We're both virgins and it was his first time receiving a hand job. He said he had an orgasm but nothing came out. It took me about 5-6 minutes to finish him off. After I finished him he was very wobbly and could hardly stand, he was shaking, infact he fell on his bed and breathed heavily and moaned for a few minutes. He told me it was the best 5 minutes of his life (lol) plus based off his physical reaction I'm guessing he didn't lie about the orgasm. I'm just wondering if he had an orgasm how come nothing came out? Also do all guys have this strong of a physical reaction with the wobbling and shaking after an orgasm? Or is it just his inexperience? He says he only masturbates twice a week.
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Just so everyone knows we used a ton of lube. He said he may have already had an orgasm half way through. He had just gotten out of the shower when I walked in but he had on pants when I started stroking him. There was a tiny bit of pre-cum on his boxers when I was taking him out of his pants but not enough to be the whole thing. The entire time he kept telling me not to stop. Maybe he was just exaggerating during the orgasm?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Hmm, a guy at that young age should be shooting a large amount of the most wonderful cum you can imagine. He probably masturbated and cummed within a few hours before you gave him the hand job. Bad boy! Tell him not to do that. Tell him you want him to wait until the two of you are together next time. That will be more satisfying for both of you. Also, if this is your first experience with cum, don't let it turn you off. Like many of the best things in life, cum is an acquired taste.

    • LOL at age 54 you seem to surely be dreaming about a young boy's fresh cum, aren't ya

    • Surely it's the spice of life.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm wobbly and shaky during climax but after I'm pretty relaxed.. limp. lol. He might of wanked himself empty before meeting up with you or he's got a medical condition- I saw it on TV once, there's something wrong with the tubes and the seamen doesn't go where it should. You can probably google it just as well as me.

  • Ejaculation and orgasm are not the same. For most men, orgasm and ejaculation occur simultaneously, but it is possible to orgasm without ejaculation and ejaculation without orgasm.
    Orgasm without ejaculation is the only way to male multiple orgasms (Tantra)
    https://www.bookpump.com/upb/pdf-b/1125135b.pdf

    • Tnx for MH.

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  • Er well that sounds fake to me?
    Weird I've never heard of a guy faking a orgasm before? O. O

  • I don't know, I always cum...

  • i believe you can have ejeaculation but no orgasm, but the other way round is impossible... no?

  • Some guys when they're younger don't always cum during climax. It takes time before their bodies are producing cum on a full time basis.

  • I always cum when i have a orgasm so i don't know

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