He's pushing me to have sex with him?

[Anonymous]

What should I do?

[tigerlover]

you should never ever do what you do not want to do or are not ready to do! that is first and foremost! when and if the time is right you will know it... and will not be pushed to do it... it will happen and come naturally! it will not be just sex! it will be love/lovemaking! you never ever do anything to please the man... for 2 reasons... first the man will lose all respect for you... secondly you will lose respect for yourself! you want it to be memorable! you want it to be passionate! and hopefully you want it to be with the love of your life/the man you will spend the rest of your life with! when and if the time comes you will know and will not... not... not... be asking... you will be in the most intimate moment of your life... and will be taken by the moment... and then... then it will be the time... not being pushed to make a decision... keep your respect... and his... and if... if he truly loves you... he will wait... and he will understand exactly what you mean/feel... if not... he didn't love/respect you... and he is not... not worth the time of day... more so... he does not respect you nor your body... i hope and pray this has helped with your confusion... and i wish you all the best... most of all... respect your body because no one aside from you will! good luck!

[SavannahBanana]

You just need to have a conversation with him next time he brings it up. Tell him the reason you either don't want to or don't feel you guys are ready for that yet.

And honestly if he still pushes you then I'd say leave him. Sorry, I know you probably don't wanna hear that, but if your in an uncomfortable position and its being caused by someone that should care deeply about your opinions then why stick around?

[Anonymous]

i know this might sound cliche, but he's really not worth it, if he isn't considering your feelings. maybe you guyz can fool around and do everything except going "all the way". I really don't think you should cave in and have sex with him.

[Littletad]

A guy who pushes a girl for sex is rarely a legitimate boyfriend if you ask me. This means he's only thinking with his penis and not his head. I'd suggest getting a new boyfriend and finding someone whose willing to wait until your ready.

[Ironpanther12]

Tell him no means no and if he really cares he'll understand. If not the only solution is to dump him. Don't let him run your life...

[xxangel1990xx]

Get out. Get out of the relationship right away. He isn't a good person and he is only interested in sex. I don't understand guys that push girls for sex. It makes them seem desperate and like future rapists.

[twilightfan123]

Can it be any more obvious? This guy is using you for your body. Dump him and tell him to get himself a whore if this behavior continues.

[Dekin]

If your comfortable with it, then sure.

If your not ready, your obviously not ready

Don't do this because of him, think for yourself.

[Muzicman94]

Don't do it unless you're absolutely ready. It is a big choice. If he truly cares for you, he won't push it and will be patient.

[Anonymous]

Michael Jordan would say: "Just Do It"