He was too Big?

I was with a guy for a while before we had sex. But he was too big. It was a horrible experience and very painful. By they way, I am not a virgin. I think big is overrated. I am thinking of breaking it off. I cannot think of having sex with him again. What do you think girls? Is bigger better, and should I just take it until it feels good?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Okay.first of all.from a guys perspective.never say "he was too big.and .I I'm thinking about breaking it off.in the same sentence. We need immediate clarification of what you are breaking off. I'm hoping you aren't going Bobbit on the poor dude just cause he is well hung.ROFL.

    "I'll show you shoving that big thing in me.get over here.I cut that thing right off you filthy little porn star"

    Now to be serious.I guess the real question is this.is your relationship only based on sex? It is obvious that there isn't much of a intimate emotional bond here, or you wouldn't be so callous about the way you are feeling toward him. I do believe eventually, things would stretch out and get better in the feeling department, but I don't think that is your problem. I think your problem is that you just want out of the relationship, and not even a big penis is enough to keep you in it. So my suggestion is to get out of the relationship and quit blaming it on the sex.

    • Lol that is funny. Really I am a student , I don't get attached to men. So you are right about that. I am not seeing marriage in our future. But heis too big he should be with a girl that likes that.

    • "Really I am a student , I don't get attached to men. " Don't make that your excuse. Not all student are like that, not sure why you would connect the two as being synonymous

    • All am saying is I don't have time to get attached. Maybe some students do but I don't, and he is not attached to me either. We are just friends who date.

  • My male friend is one of these guys that has a monster member; and yep, a lot of the times the girls can't have sex with him. From what he says he needs to be gentle and he can't go all the way in so maybe you can try it again, but tell the guy to take it easy; I think a lot of us guys watch too much porn and we just want to pump it and slam it in.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sex should never be painful and it doesn't have to be. Make sure you are relaxed and use lots of extra lube and make sure he goes slow. If it hurts stop as hurting will only turn you make your muscles tense up more. If a babies head can fit through there so can that guy! As to your other question I like a big guy but not too big. Length doesn't bother me but girth is important. You don't mention how big he was though maybe he's a complete monster , try again and if it doesn't feel good stop. Listen to your body and make sure you let him know so he can take action and be gentler.

  • I'd give him another shot. Maybe you weren't ready for it, but you'll adapt. I kind of did that with my boyfriend. The first time it hurt and I even bled a bit, but now he just feels good. And he's a lot bigger than any other guy I've been with. If you like the guy otherwise, I'd say to at least give it a shot. You might end up like me, loving how huge he is.

  • my friend who has had sex with loads of people was with one guy and she loves sex but couldn't stick it because he was too big, I think guys can be too big lol not that I've ever come across one

    • "Haven't 'come' across one". I see what you did there.

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  • omg I have never heard this befor! its so exciting!

    well I guess if ur not enjoying yourself just dnt go oral

    • I like you. Lol.

  • Poor girl. Got broke off with something she couldn't handle. Give him to another girl that can appreciate him.