He wants to come inside of me?

[Anonymous]

Me & my boyfriend (been seeing each other almost 2 months) have recently become sexual a few weeks ago.. We only had sex once and been on dates after that.. we were 'dirty' texting today basically I was horny and texted him and told him lol. After of a few texts like that he told me he was gonna masturbate when he got home from work. He then told me he wanted to come inside of me.. (we use condoms) He's never told me that before. So does that mean he wants to seriously come inside of me (with no condom) or you think* he just said that out of the excitement, but won't act on it? I told him I wanted him too (I've been planning on getting a birth control device aka iud, but I'm not on it yet nor have I told him yet) What do you think>? We're in our 20's.

[Anonymous]

Don't go on birth control for him. How can you say he's your boyfriend, yet you slept with him not 2 months into the relationship? I've been through this before. You're probably just casual sex partners. At least that's probably how he sees things.

[Thiezz]

> How can you say he's your boyfriend, yet you slept with him not 2 months into the relationship? Where do you come from where people must wait longer than two months before having sex in a relationship?

[Asker]

We were officially boyfriend and girlfriend before we became sexual. I initiated it he never pressured me..at all. I Started becoming sexual and he made sure I was positive about doing it and we have. I have no regrets... He is my boyfriend. Lol wth.

[Anonymous]

So... IUDs are normally only recommended for women who have been pregnant before. This leads me to believe you know exactly what he wants.

[Asker]

I want an IUD because its good for like 5 years or more if I choose another. I don't want any children right now, and my friends and other people have recommended that. I wanna get it for protection from pregnancy (even tho it's not 100%) So its not recommended for girls who have not been prgnant before?

[Opinion Owner]

Something about the changes that occur during pregnancy making it easier to insert and women who have had children are supposed to have less problems with severe cramps too.

[diamond3]

if you don't want a baby I suggest you don't let that happen untill you get on birthcontrol.. and I bet he is serious

[Anonymous]

He probably would like to. What guy wouldn't. But seriously I wouldn't risk it especially if your not on birth control. And still use a condom even if you are on birth control

[jayleetaylors]

i agree! use every birth control method if you don't wanna have children yet and condoms prevent stds so use it all!

[Asker]

We've only had sex once and have used a condom. I just wanted to know like why would he want to if he knows sperm = baby? You know..?

[Opinion Owner]

It would feel better for him (more sensitive without a condom on) and would be more of a turn on.

[wellhung4her]

let him come inside of you... if he has a condom on :P

[foolycooly1001]

of course he wants to.