He wants to finger bang me?

[Anonymous]

He tried, but I would pull his hand away. It's not that I didn't want it, because I did. I was just a bit embarrassed, I didn't know what he would think (I'm a virgin) I just got really nervous because I'm a bit hairy (a bit, not a lot) I'm a virgin, so I've never done anything like this before. Will he think it's gross? He also wanted to go down on me, but I was so nervous because I don't want him to think I smell bad or taste bad. I've tossed him off before and I don't mind anything at all, but what if he thinks different with me? Oh, and I'm 19 AND I've been with him for 3 years. (I'm not easy..)

[Anonymous]

In the real world (which this forum at G*G isn't), guys care a lot less about your grooming and even tanginess down below. during the fingering stage. A wicked secret is that if we come away with a musky fragrance on the fingers, we tend not to wash that hand and will revisit it with a sniff during the next day as a reminder. He will think only positive things, like being grateful and excited, when you give him hand access to your Vag. If you decide to grant him oral access, trim to 1/2" and swish out well in your bath so you are sweet and fresh.

I remember these days of very exciting adventures. Fun is in store for him

[thisGUYknows]

3 years and you're still a virgin? my god do you know what you're doing to him? if you're a bit hairy, then shave. if you think it smells, take a bath. lol your question is not that hard to answer. just relax. all girls over-think things but they have to realize that guys don't care as long as they get to have sex. trust me.

[Asker]

I want to make it good for him, too. I don't want him to think he's been waiting for something that's not that great..

[thisGUYknows]

HE WONT CARE! hahaha. trust me he just wants to be intimate with u. you guys can show each other what feels good. tell him how to please you so it can eventually be good. no one's first time is the best time.

[darlanoy0510]

Wow you're been together for three years and you guy never fool around. I'm amazed because I don't think I can be with any guys with out sex or fool around at least for that long. He must like you a lot to stay with you and no foreplay or sex. Do you want him to go down on you? or let him finger you?

[Asker]

We have foreplay all the time, and yes I would like both of those things. He totally respects me and says he'll never do anything that I didn't want him to do. We've both been waiting long enough.. I'm just really nervous!

[darlanoy0510]

Hmm I understand now. I think you're have a right to be nervous since you're still a virgin. Relax and just enjoy it and let him take a lead that if you're ready. If you're not ready don't do it. You have to want it too.

[jackflynn7]

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[Asker]

I'm not a troll! I'm most definitely serious.

[Craig69]

I don't think he will care if you have a bit of hair down there, after all, you are a woman and not a 5 year old little girl. If you worry about smell or taste, keep it clean. Believe me, don't worry about what he will think. He will be ecstatic to get his finger(s) into you.

[AshBrown]

If he is there for getting in your pants (in whichever way), he will not mind if you are a gorilla or a shrimp down there.

[Asker]

Ha!

[AshBrown]

I hope you understood what I meant. Didn't mean to disrespect you.

[Peedesperation]

There aren't many guys who would wait 3 years to have sex with someone, if they only wanted sex they would just go else where, if he has waited this long it could mean that he thinks your very special and worth waiting for.

[Peedesperation]

If you have been with him for 3 years I don't think he just wants to get in your virgin pants, I would say that to wait that long shows that he really does like you.

[chasen1997]

3 years he's serious really serious