I think you just answered your own question, you said yourself that you are paranoid about this. So why let him tape it then? Say no, be assertive. You have a right to privacy, and you never know where those tapes or videos will go. What happens if you two break up? He may upload the video to a p*rn site or show it to friends. It's easy for videos and pictures to travel now, all it takes is someone pressing send. I personally wouldn't do it, and it sounds as though you are pretty uncomfortable about the idea. Just say no, he can't force you to have sex on tape. If he tries, then you know he doesn't care about you and only cares about one thing.
Tapes and pictures have a way of haunting you, and I think it's a good idea to just keep that part of your life private. He may say that he won't let anyone else watch it, however, things change when someone is upset with you or when you two break up. Plus if he has the tape at home, someone may find it and decide to steal it. So many things could happen to it, just safer to not make it in the first place.
But say your boyfriend wants to show the whole world instead of his friends like wanting it to go on Snapchat or something telling oh it's okay that's you give me head
@naturalgirl You still have a right to say no. It's not okay if he keeps pressuring you, as you have to be comfortable with it going out. He most likely wants this to go to his friends so he can brag about it after.
The first time he publicly said I love you is after I did the video the only problem is he will lie to another woman or other women that i even exist in order to appear single and have sex with them Why aren't I enough if he says he loves me. He used a picture from the video and under it he wrote i love you
Don't do it. My boyfriend broke up with me and now I'm having a hard time asking/reaching him to delete everything. Ugh...
To video you and your girlfriend having sex will always have an hidden agenda to it, so be warned, this could end up on a site or on eveyones phone, and then your reputation is so damaged, no bloke will touch you, its worth thinking about, and why not just be safe and say no, you have talent, don't risk that for no man, and why does he need a video, when he has access to the real deal, YOU. ?, stay safe,x
But say your boyfriend wants to show the whole world instead of his friends like wanting it to go on Snapchat or something telling oh it's okay that's you give me head and that I post it
Once it is recorded... it is out there. You have no control over what happens to it. Say you break up down the road, you know it will end up on the internet.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I just wouldn't but, I'd say he is most likely doing it to shoe his mates..
What if he just doesn't want to show his mates but the whole world because he wants it on Snapchat and even random strangers
I had someone ask me this too... anxious for sure
He might keep it a secret until you break up than show it around... I wouldn't want to see my friend having sex though.
it may be that he wants to keep the tape as a memory of 1st sex,but you should not take risk..if you can't deny him just go for making a tape but make sure it is with you all the time..when we want to see,both of you enjoy it together,good luck..
Don't do it. Look at Kim Kardashin & Paris Hilton! =O
most guys will make the mistake of showing the video around and talking about their sexual escapades.I personally would want to keep the tape in between the two of us only.Trust me I can keep secrets well.But speaking about most guys,they will show it to their friends and there are more chances of it being leaked on to the internet and stuff.
so PLZ AVOID GIVING HIM THE TAPE.tell him you can watch it when you are together
What if he wants it leaked like instead of on regular he wants it on Snapchat and like wants it posted
If you were only together for 6 months it would be a bad idea. I haven't done it before but I don't think its appropriate to do it that early in the relationship
What if he wants everyone on Snapchat to see me giving him head and even strangers
Don't do it.
On the internet.
don't unless you control the video
My gf wanted to do this too. I am older and what the hell if it turns her on I'm okay with it. It was actually kind of fun. If it got onto the net I will never know. I will never know if she showed her friends but I doubt it.
Do you want other people to see you having sex? If the answer is no, don't do it. You never know what can happen and whose hands the tape could end up in.
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