My roommate had this problem with her ex-boyfriend that she dated for over a year. He would do things for her, but he refused to let her see his penis or even touch it really outside his pants. He said it was because his last relationship failed due to it being focused too much on sex. So he decided he wouldn't have sex again until it was the woman he was going to marry. I'm not sure how he thought going down on her all the time meant he wasn't focusing on the sex but to each their own.
Bottom line they broke up. She couldn't take it anymore and to this day she hasn't seen his penis. It could've been all kinds of issues and insecurities, but it's not something she, nor most people could put up with for long. I'd sit down and tell him that it's affecting your relationship in a bad way, so you at least need to know WHY. If he won't give you that, and nothing changes, I'd walk.
omfg, I swear same situation. and he has nothing to be "ashamed" about, I've seen the outline of his penis, it has no shame to it.
omg im in the same vote been dating a guy five weeks, weve been so intimate and close and spend lots of time together and he gives me lots of foreplay, but i can't feel anything against me and when i go to touch him he freaks out and comes out with millions of exuces
Sing this to him:
https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=S3bRPHPQsOs:D
hahaha
You should just tell him that you realllly realllllllyyy want to see it. Scratch that, tell him you're dying to see it!
What, I can't believe YouTube flagged that video -.-
hahaha seriously
Have you ever felt that way?
maybe he's a woman or has a small penis. either way he's insecure
lol, I don't think he's a woman! He may be insecure about his penis though...
Technically showing genitals to opposite gender is also a kind of pleasure. There is no question of shy in it for guys. I have no idea why this guy is like this and is strange for me. you don;t need to show yours until he gives you. good luck
well that's what I'm saying. he gets horny real fast. because as I see it rise in his sweat pants, he moves it. so that you can't tell if he is horny. but I don't want to show mine to him. if he doesn't show me his.
Just tell him, look, if your worried I will close my eyes and just have a feel, but you really need to see it, because he could have an STI or something, which is why he won't get it out, something to think about, stay safe, x
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Whoa this is weird...maybe he is shy or not ready to show it to you? You should ask him tho...
Possible he’s not circumcised and been made fun of before!
Well, perhaps he's afraid that you will size him up as women invariably do. He's got to realize, it's just a fact of life. If he doesn't like they way you judge him, he can move on.
I will occasionally do the same thing... sometimes guys like to tease girls too =P
Best way of doing it and guaranteed that you will see his penis. Wait for him to go to the bathroom. As soon as he closes the door, sneak to the door. When you hear him peeing in the toilet (it will be loud vs him sitting down like if he had to crap). Then unlock the door or bust in and you will see his penis one way or another 😉👍
Also if you are successful, you could casually walk up to him and take control of his penis while he’s peeing in the toilet. After that, get some toilet paper, blot out all the pee left in his penis, flush the paper and kneel down and give him a blowjob. Or you sit him down on the toilet and suck his penis. Or you sit on the toilet and suck his penis. 👍😉
Sounds like little “pee pee” syndrome to me.
Hes prob self conscious of his size
lol I know for the fact that its big. I've seen an outline of it.
MAybe he's a giver. Yes wants to please you. Also you should ask why he wont.
Or better yet grab him and pull down his pants. Tell you want to give him a bj!
No answer, but this is Hilarious!
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