While it is true that looks matter for initial impressions, I would say that for girls, its much more about the personality. Plus, it sounds like you are attractive. I don't think a couple extra pounds would turn away most girls, and if it does, well then they are being shallow and missing out.
But... confidence is a huge turn on and self-consciousness is a HUGE turn-off. So really, just try to let it go. Walk into the bar or club or work, and give yourself a little pep talk. "I am sexy, fun, and a great person. Any girl here would be lucky to be with me." This sounds dumb, but just saying that a couple times will help you out. Even the hottest of the hot need those pep talks sometimes. And if you don't have that confidence, you need to find a way to fake it until you do!
Haven't you ever seen some really HUGE guy with a bombshell? Well, 1) that girl is probably wayy over dating super attractive guys who have a tendency to be assholes and 2) the girl is super attracted to his personality.
And if that's not enough, google "ralphie mae and his wife." He's this like 400 lb comedian who has a smoking wife.
This will not affect the way all women look at you. Or, in other words, not all women think alike. There are many women (like myself) who don't pursue attractions based on appearance. And there are even women who have a particular "thing" for heavy-set guys. Based on what you said though, I will say that your own admitted dents in your self-confidence will make you less attractive overall. Self confidence always plays a huge roll in a person's attractiveness. Not everyone will admit that they look for confidence, but subconsciously everyone is tuned-in to other people's levels and qualities of confidence.
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my boyfriend weighs around 300-320 maybe, and I love it!
If anything, it makes me more attracted to him. If you are personally unhappy with yourself, then fine lose weight! If not, then don't worry about it man! and honestly, if a girl really cares that much, she's not worth your time.
No not at all. For the most part, women love guys that are big... if you have a good personality your weight won't matter unless you are obese or something. Also, if it is muscle too, that will work in your favor. Be happy that you are a guy with a little extra weight rather than a girl with a little extra weight! lol and don't be self conscious... it definitely does not make a girl look at you differently sexually. It's about how you make her feel that really counts! good luck!
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