Help.. girlfriend won't let me come?

[fasttaco]

Every night we will have sex and when she thinks I'm getting close she will stop(sometimes several times) and then finish her self off and won't let me do the same. I asked her about this and she says it makes her horny and hot not letting me orgasm. WELL IT MAKES ME REALLY HORNY! jeesh.. why is she doing this? Its kind of unfair. I keep asking her to let me and she keeps telling me "maybe tomorrow". It's been 5 days now and she's never done this before. I'm about to jerk off during my lunch break at work!

[sammysamson84]

well if that's not a tease, I really don't know ...

but that's a game for 2 ...

if she's able to keep you from finishing, you'll be able to keep her from finishing aswell ...

but as you might know, doing something like that is really mean, so instead tell her that you know it would be really mean and that you'll let her do ...

but as I said ... teasing is a game for 2 ... so as you may have guessed by now, it's prank time ...

watch her finishing ... with a devilish smile ... if she asks why you are smiling, simply keep smiling ... just tell her that "maybe tomorrow" will be your new motto ... after that ignore any questions, and smile ...

well, if this girl is really hot, maybe you can cool her down ... how about suprising her with a nice bag of crushed ice the next time she stops during sex and takes care of her own ...

... well maybe that's a bit too cool for her, but hey ... all is fair in love and war ...

if she's really p*ssed off after this, tell her you are sorry ... verry sorry, and of course will stop playing her pranks like this ...then, for a broad hint, bring up your best devilish smile and ask "maybe tomorrow?"

for another nice prank you'll need a firecracker with a long fuse ... at the weekend, when she want's to sleep longer in the morning you can give her a rude awakening ... be sure not to be around when the fireworks starts (not close to her, but at the other end of her bedroom will wake her just the right way) ... leave a sign next to the firecracker ... "eventually I'll run out of firecrackers ... maybe tomorrow?"

you could also rerecord some of her favorite music ... a few seconds of her music ... and, depending on her music switch to something "else" like speed metal on 300% volume or something like this, followed by a nice message from you, sounding like a radio moderator, about stopping to prank someone, maybe just tomorrow ...

another nice prank is a garlic or chili flavoured toothpaste ... if the ice was too cold, maybe she likes it hot ... use an injection needle but inject through the opening so there will be no visible change to the tube ... when she comes out of the bathroom ... you know the drill: "maybe tomorrow"

if you need more ideas or think those pranks are a bit too harsh ... just tell me ...

[sammysamson84]

Well just another prank you might find usefull if you are technically oriented ... disassemble an electric lighter to get an piezzo-electric-crystal, mount it to a desk chair so that someone who sits down on that chair will trigger it ... mount wires to both electrodes and hide them inside the cushion of the chair .... attach thumbtacks to the ends of the wires and hide them in the cushion too ... if setup correctly this setup will deliver a harmless electric shock to whoever takes this seat

[dutchmeister]

This turns my girlfriend on a lot as well. She loves to play with herself when I am doing her. She tells me she would love to just play with herself and have me stop moving at all so I can feel her coming and then not let me cum at all. I love this tease and denial and these power games in bed though. I tell her I don't want her to come so I suggest she stops herself from coming too close, because for her it's all about relaxing and letting me in. If she does decide to come I will need to come up with an appropriate punishment for coming without my approval. She loves all of it. She will go on asking me what kind of punishment and I tell her to go on and find out and whisper in her ear 'BUTT' she won't leave the room unbruised. I'd turn her around and start going while I can see her ass and start squeezing her butt cheeks. I dare her to go on, because I'd love to spank those firm ass cheeks of her. If she does cum, I would grab her arms behind her back and spank her hard while she can't do anything to stop me. Then do something like tie her up and keep going on her while her ass is so sore, being taken still is painful. She loves all of it and so do I. Things like this I think you just got to feel and go for. Don't talk about it, for me it has always been like this with her. I guess she just loves to be dominated but sometimes likes to take the upper hand just to taunt and dare me. Maybe your girlfriend is doing the same.

[Samisrad]

Wow. Tell her you won't have sex with her until she is normal and lets you finish. Jeeze, talk about not caring about your partner during sex.

[fasttaco]

We've been dating for over a year and we always have a good time in bed. Somewhere on the internet she must have got this idea, and it really turns her on having me beg for it. It's just hard going 5 days when your used to everyday! I'm actually kind of liking it in some ways... she's being so dominate and that's hot!

[fasttaco]

I take that back, I think anything is hot at this point. haha.

[noctum]

well use same trick womans been doing for eyars... next time she wnats to have sex say..

nah.. don't feel like to.. try to understand its good fro ya .but I rather masturbate and stuff sicne that way I cna cum..

how long you dating her.. maybe she some psico

[fasttaco]

I don't know what you mean. What do I do !!

[noctum]

Talk to her.. and say what she doing sucks.. sayb if she keeps doing that ull rather give yourself a handjob and watch some p*rn than being with her.. Or better get a normal chick... ur girl probaly is into the dominate/humilate thing...

[katiesmuff]

You have a weird gf

[l-hedoniste]

Negotiate a compromise: "An orgasm every 5 days is unacceptable. Two, three days, tops."

[Jerseyboy84]

Get her doggystyle and when she tries to pull away just wrap your arms around her a hold on for dear life. Next time she wants sex you can just totally deny her anything and don't give in even if she tells you that she'll let you cum. hold out for a little bit and she'll let you cum.

[fasttaco]

I can't force her to, she is very athletic and I'm not near as much. Although I am stronger, If I tried that she would slip and slide and I'd end up with my face planted in the floor or something worse.

[inkubus444]

hmm to make you last longer ?

[fasttaco]

That can't be it, she can always get off at least once or more if I think she wants more.

[inkubus444]

A punition ? a little game ? she wants you to have multi orgasms as explained in an article on this site ?

[flammabledude]

jesus man why are you still with her.. tell her to f*** off until she learns some TEAMWORK

[Anonymous]

Yep, what you've got, my friend is a Dominatrix... and she must have just read about a phenomenon known as Orgasm Denial. She's doing this because she just learned that she can actually control you by controlling your orgasms.

The way it works is... if you want to stay with her, she will demand an increasing control over when you can orgasm - and also HOW you can orgasm. You'd better pray she doesn't eventually move on to "ruined orgasms", or you'll be in hell. Some Dominatrices actually like to bring you to the point where you physically have to ejaculate - and the moment you begin to, she will immediately cease touching you... She may even prevent you from touching yourself. Don't be surprised if she also demands chastity from you, when you are not with her.

You need to decide how much you like her... because, depending on what degree she is going to take this, you are either going to be in heaven - or hell.

[fasttaco]

If that's what she's doing, she's learning from somewhere. We have been together for almost 2 years, and while she's had lots of nice things for bed this one is kind of weird to me, and frustrating. And somehow I think I like it, letting her take over? She's been asking me to do a lot of stuff for her lately too. Am I being p**** whipped or what? Is it wrong to like it because its kind of growing on me.. And I love her very much!! I'll try to hold out and if it ends she's going to get some revenge!!

[Opinion Owner]

Bad news, you are screwed... pretty soon, she is going to be insisting that you askfor permission, and so forth.

[fasttaco]

She already told me to ask her nicely, every time she's said no. I can touch myself but she always stops me by either getting on top of me or doing something crazy before I can get off.

[dutchmeister]

Like anonymous posted, she will take increasing control over you. But she might become less attracted to you when you no longer show signs of being an alpha male. Soon she will be keeping you in chastity longer and bring up the idea of other guys coming around the house for her pleasure. Who knows, maybe she will reverse roles on you and the only way you can come is by her fucking you up the ass with a strap on while you suck her new boyfriend off.

[dutchmeister]

I am fairly succesful and very controlling in relationships and I'm not into guys at all, which is why this is a huge turn on for me to have a dominant girlfriend reversing roles on me.