If you and the other couple are interested in each other, there are many things you can do without necessarily having to have sex or swap sex partners. I do agree with the ladies comments, it could lead to drama and jealousy if not discussed prior and everyone coming to an understanding. If you communicate with each other you can come to an agreement and set limits and respect each other as to what is and is not acceptable. You can all have sex in the same room and maybe at 1st just touch each others' partners "soft swinging". It can be a start and you both can build from it as you feel more comfortable with each other. This is how we started and the second time we were a bit more free, as to what we allowed each other to do. It can be very enjoyable too.
If you feel totally confident in your relationship then knock yourselves out and have a great time. Discuss it with your partner well BEFORE you are with them and find out what your limits are (if any). I had an ex girlfriend I had who told me I could do whatever I wanted to her girlfriend when she came over except let the girlfriend do oral on me. She had this belief that oral was more intimate than any other act. How about that? LOL. But the point is that if you have the convo before you talk to the other couple it limits the possible drama bombs.
All of you have to be comfortable with it. If you arent, then don't go along with it. Ask your girlfriend if she's comfortable. And ask your friend's if they are. If everyone is I don't see anything wrong with it. It's a personal thing so no one has any right to judge you on it. Think about it before you actually do it. Ask yourself what the benefits of doing this would be and what would be bad about it and what you may be worried about. And again, if you have any doubts then don't do it. :) Good luck!
I agree with lostandconfused, There is no telling what could happen if you end up going forward with this threesome. Personally I'd never do it, I could just see the drama it would cause.
[Example Drama]
Me: You're so stubborn!
BF: Why don't you just go sleep with Randy again?
Me: Oh come on! You know you liked Malissa better then me, I could hear it!
Just be careful. "swinging" can really destroy a relationship. Even if everyone acts like it's ok and there's no jealousy, you could find yourself picturing your girlfriend in your head having sex with another man and vice versa. Jealousy that you never imagined were there could surface and once that line is crossed. There is no turning back.
Yeah. I think no actual switching would occur, for now I think sex in the same room as the other couple is a better choice
True, the images can come back to you, but, sometimes that's a good thing. If a couple really go about this together, as a couple, truly, openly, and honestly at every step of the way, it can work. I know for sure. And I also know that it can just keep getting better and better. But absolutely, for sure, it has to be a completely trustworthy, drama-free, loving couple.
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Then you need to be sure that you can trust everyone there. And get everyone to agree that they will not tell anyone else about it.
Having others find out about it is when bad things can start.
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