Ya, and? So what? As long as she's still faithful to you, be happy with that. Do you ever think about other girls? If not, kudos, you and I are alike in that where if we are in love with someone we don't see anyone other than them. If not, well stop being a hypocrite. Still, if you are like that where you don't think about other girls, well, it might be hard, but don't forget she's still with you. Talk to her about it, ask her why, maybe she's just still immature and feels like she wants to be free, but at the same time likes being with you. So she lets her fantasy be the free part and chooses that real life be with you. And, if you really must, step up and try things with her that get her off and turn her on and whatnot. Make her think even more about you and the stuff you'll do with her or to her or whatever.
Well there are 2 parts to this...
First off, like others have said don't worry. You can't help but notice other attractive people out there. I'm sure you've watched videos that didn't have your girlfriend. She is just doing the same.
The bigger issue is why would she tell you this. This is one of the most insensitive/stupid things you can say to your bf/gf. I can understand how you would be stressed over this. I would be very insecure if my girlfriend told me this! IMO, I would tell her you understand she can't help but find others attractive, but that you do not want to know about it. Tell her how horrible this makes you feel. If she gets angry at you for this or worse continues telling you I'd leave this insensitive bitch before she tears your self esteem into shreds!
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When you get into a relationship, your ability to find other people attractive doesn't get turned off. I would suggest that most people have fantasized about someone other than their partner at some point or another. Some people will push these fantasies out of their heads because they feel guilty for thinking it, others are okay with thinking about these fantasies. Most people just don't talk about these fantasies because they feel guilty about them or worry that it will upset their partner.
It doesn't necessarily mean anything about your relationship or your girlfriend's feelings for you. The only problem with it, in my opinion, is if your partner acts on it or otherwise lets it interfere negatively with their relationship with you.
we haven't had sex yet. Only 3rd base
It means she likes variety in her head. Unless the fantasies are real, I wouldn't worry about it. By that I mean she's seeking out guys to do her fantasies with...as opposed to just letting it stay in her head.
It's the same thing when a guy watches p*rn or reads magazines. It's imagined. Who cares?
Touch flesh or get emotional over a real person, THEN I have issues.
What you should do is nothing and be happy she is only releaving those thoughts by herself while masturbating. Fantasies and attractions to others doesn't just go away because of a relationship.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!dude. chill out. just because she thinks that someone else is more attractive doesn't mean she has any intention of leaving you. there are A LOT of factors that would work into her wanting to leave but that's not one of them.
im gonna go out on a limb here and say that there are other woman that you find attractive other than JUST her. is it cheating? hell no. is there anything wrong with it? again, no.
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Settle down...everybody thinks about other people...don't you? You should be happy that she's able to feel comfortable enough to be honest with you.
C'mon...don't you think about hot women when you masterbate?
Everyone fantasizes about different people when they masturbate. That's what makes it fun!
a. why would you ever ask and why would she give this information up.
b. who does she fantasize about? russel brand? john travolta? or her next door neighbor?
c. don't you look at p*rn when you masturbate? as long as no one is acting on these impulse with other people outside your relationhip, don't look too deep into it... if it makes you that uncomfortable then leave her...
she dumped me 2 months ago. f*** her
youve never thought about anything else while you masturbate? I wouldn't take it as a big deal, try wowing her in bed a little more that should probably take care of the problem somewhat.
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