Help!! I've been cumming super quick lately and I don't know why, is it normal?

I use to have decent stamina now I could hardly last 3 minutes, what's tf is going on!! This is just masturbation tho I haven't had sex in a couple months. so I don't know how that would turn out but I'm worried I'll be premature the next time i get laid. Nothing's changed in my life so I have no clue why I'm unable to control it anymore.

Has anybody else gone through this, is it this just temporary, what could I do to fix it?
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  • Pre-mature ejaculation is not a disease: onlinelibrary.wiley.com/.../abstract

    My suggestion is, when you're with a woman, use your hands/mouth/toys to get her off before you even think about putting your penis inside her - then you can orgasm when you're ready and you don't have to worry that she's unsatisfied.

    • Absolutely! I'm 40 and it still happens with the same person I've been with for 20 years. Depends on how excited or ramped up I am, or how long it's been since the last time I've had it. But def almost each and every time I put her first and get her off or close to off. I love giving her oral and using vibes, lotions and toys on her. Soon as she's ready or has had enough she mounts me or pulls me on her or flips over and wants the penetration. It's amazing to climax together if you can pull it off? It's also fun to play tease games and penetrate her and when you're close stop and pull out and focus on her. Go back to having sex, when close again stop, give her more attention, and repeat that. Same with getting a handjob or oral. Enjoy it until your close. Stop her and focus on her, and repeat. You can make sex last if you really want to. We do these things for hours on the weekends and it's amazing and the build ups are much more incredible and explosive! Some cock rings help too!

    • @Mr1derful Excellent elaboration on what creative couples do to have great sex no matter what. A lot of the younger people here don't seem to know how sex can really be an all-day devotional act.

    • Thanks I still get excited and giddy like a teen. But oh yeah as you get older, well at least I did, my focus switched from me just caring and getting off, to say to myself I want to be a great lover, and I began enjoying and actually learning the female body. I loved it. And I feel I've become a better man as a result. That's just my perspective of course. It is so much fun to get her engine started so to speak and patiently wait and just enjoy her body. I mean absolutely I love to get out the oils and give her a full body, play with toys and explore with hands and mouths, touch and tease, and just really take our time and relax and really build up for powerful mind blowing O's! when it's time it's so much fun to try to climax at the same time together and feel all the muscles just work together and we both actually shake! But just like I once was, kids will never know until they mature into men and women!

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Most Helpful Guys

  • My friends always told me that they jerked off before they knew they were gonna have sex so that they lasted longer, to me it's a bit weird to jerk off before the real thing?

    • But that might not always be an option

    • And I know you usually it take longer to cum the second round but for Some reason thats hardly made a diffrence lately

    • True

  • I wish that happened to me. Being super slow has advantages but not every time.

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  • The solution is to get a girlfriend. :)

    • If only it was that easy

    • In life that's as easy as it gets. Yeah sometimes life sucks.

  • Maybe you jerk off too much lol

    • Not really about once a week sometimes less. Jerking off too often would actually have the opposite effect.

    • that usually works the opposite way. i masturbate a lot and so it takes longer for me

    • Jerking off before hand def helps with that and actually hurts the case sometimes and it's harder to come.