Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!

[Anonymous]

I've seen many questions on this topic, so let me explain you why many women don't care about penis sizes.

1) Only 30% of women can actually experience a "vaginal" orgasm during sex with sole penetration and without clit rubbing.

Why would we care about your penis size if most of the time it can't make us cum? Trust me, we are more concerned about your oral/fingering skills.

2) The vagina sensitivity lies only in the first third of its lenght. Yes, you got it right.

3) The lenght of the vagina varies from 3' to 4'.5" and it's specifically designed to accomodate every size.

4) We are having sex with you because we like YOU.

When you first meet someone you have no clue of his equipment down there. If we decide you're worth it, it means we have chosen you because of your character, behaviour, kindness and so on. Many women don't give a s**t about your penis.

5) We'll adore your penis because it's YOURS.

If we're into you, if we love you, we'll love it too. Not because it's big, not even because it looks nice, but because it's attached to your body, to you.

So please, stop asking whether size matters or not. The answer is: no, it doesn't. If it does it means we're not that much into you anyway. At that point you should find someone who truly cares about you and make you feel like you're worth it.

A big hug to all of you who are having troubles and who are worried because of this.

I LOVE YOU MEN. You're special creatures.

[Anonymous]

Dear guys,

we are more aroused by feeling your hot bodies and looking at your faces when you look at us during sex than your f*cking penis.

Seriously, I can honestly say that a guy's face or body comes wayyyy before his penis size. Women pick their partners to have children with based on their GENES. We want to have the strongest, and most attractive offspring possible.

You could literally have the nicest, biggest penis on earth. If you're fat or ugly... we don't want you.

[Floyd790]

Well guess what same goes for a girls vagina if vaginas were pretty girls would walk around with their faces covered and vaginas exposed. Face is the most important feature.

[Opinion Owner]

ya exactly

[Frost_Byt3]

This makes sense... afterall you can't see a penis when its inside you

[thatkaruguy]

this take was made by a woman who has no idea what she is talking about and probably never had the misfortune to have sex with a man that has a small penis.

[Piscarian92]

I agree. It does matter to me

[bomba78]

In all honesty: Size does matter. It might not make much of a difference if a penis is 4.5 or 5 inches, but is sure as hell makes a difference between 2 and 6... sorry, I just can't stand any more of this "women care more about you than your penis" crap (on regards to sex of course). Any extreme is bad, 2" is just as bad as a giant 8", both really difficult to work with. Guys, if you are average (5-6"), you are perfectly fine. But no, a below 4" penis is just not going to get me off. A man can be a magician with his hands and tongue but if there is nothing following up to that, unfortunately I will get frustrated and bored. I really do not want to be in a situation where I ask myself if he is in yet.

Let the downvotes begin...

[Hwlsop]

I just thought of an awesome invention that will make a lot of money. Penis extensions that go over the penis of small guys.

[Kalibie]

That already exists bruh, I tried it with my 7inch boyfriend for shits and giggles. @hwlsop

[Ghassan]

Most helpful answer to ''Does a penis size matter'' ever.

[Remonster]

I appreciate your honestly. I never believed in the 'size doesn't matter' thing. It's rather simple logic that a bigger object in a stretchable orifice is going to feel better most of the time unless you're hurting. @Hwlsop A good quality penis pump and the knowledge how to use it safely is much more valuable

[Surfofthenomad]

Thank you for your honesty, I'd rather hear that than women trying to coddle everyone on here.

[Lolomon]

Realist comment yet. I hate how women keep saying" oh it doesn't matter" but those are the same women when they are with their girls who will talk about how "small" it is.

[bubbletrouble]

I like the honesty

[Northeast106]

This should be MHO. This is exactly why men never believe that bullshit. It's one of those "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", or "don't worry you'll find someone". It's just sugar coated lies, and men just want to know what a good penis size is to know whether or not they should date. It's really that simple. Just like if your really ugly, or really small, or really obese, you know not many people will want to sleep with you.

[Stuckintime]

Just want to add something to your great comment on this ancient take. Those that have a 2 inch penis need to find one of those women who love the little ones because of the location of their g spot and those that have an 8 inch penis need to find a size queen because the rest of the women do not want them.

[Phantom-menace1234]

Penis size, swings in roundabouts. If the guy has a 1 inch penis, he is going to have many problems having sex with women. Most women will leave him.

Its only going to matter to girl, who is asexual, or hates having sex. So penis does matter to a certain degree, no matter how much character the guy has got.

However this article would be good for all the guys, that boost having 8 inchers or above, because its going to hurt her during intercourse. So for those guys, you are actually just stupid.

[BeeNee]

UGH, yes to all of this. It's literally the same thing with how many of us women are hung up on this or that body part... literally no one cares but you and that's probably hurting your confidence and what not to the point where people get hung up about it which is such a mood killer. No one wants to hear, "do you think my size is okay, is this enough for you, am I too small." F--k it, just own it. You can't change it anyway, so if you're confident with who you are, men and women alike, that's what's super attractive about you to other people. And if a girl is soooo insistent on a specific size and can't see past that, then clearly that is not the girl for you.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Amen sister!!!

Great take.

[ChocolateCinderella]

Amen Sis!!! I feel the same way... Every Man and Woman isn't alike, but I am with the majority of the ones just like you. Be Proud, I am. ;)

[gtrain]

Im glad i read this lol

[Stacyzee]

"Penis size doesn't matter"

Is a general statement.
I've met some women who have preferences in what they desire.
Why?
Because they can't feel anything when they do a guy a certain size, or like the fact that sex is more intense with someone larger.

Yeah , there will be other women who prefer medium because large hurts.
But you can't group everyone in one basket and say penis size doesn't matter.

It does to some in all fairness.

[AmandaLynn1930]

you took the words right out of my mouth. haha! to me, size does matter.

[ChocEyes]

Yes, exactlly what you said. It's not difficult concept to understand. I think the reason whysome guys keep asking about that is not because they don't understand, but because they have a hard time accepting it. But c'mon people have preferences! What's wrong with that? Just get over it. The world has far worse problems.

[jormungand]

Big sis said it all

[dartmaul15]

oh this again.

It matters (no denying it), but it doesn't matter nearly as much as many guys think.
In fact, i'll make a bold statement and say that it's more important to be small enough than to be "big enough".
I'd rather be a little small in the eyes of a girl, than to be so large i'll make it hurt for her.

So let's stop being PC, and actually admit it does matter. Too big can hurt her, to small won't do enough. But there's way more to it than just your equipment. How you use that, your hands, your tonuge, and everything else matter too. It's one of many factors. That's life, and let's just accept it.

[cmarie1971]

Well perhaps this should have been titled "why penis size doesn't matter TO ME." I agree with these reasons completely, but for some women size is a major consideration in picking a partner, but turn about is fair play for some men looks and body type are a major consideration. That is their choice.
Let me warn you once you hit your 40s and 50s your body may start to betray you. Guys, old faithful from your 20s may not cooperate any more and ladies what tripped your trigger at 20 may become uncomfortable at 40. So develop some bedroom skills beyond "its huge" and "its wet".

[vishna]

I personally don't care about size. I want my guy to have skills, or be a somewhat quick learner. I don't want him to be lazy in bed, that's a huge turn off, way more than size.

[genuinlysensitive]

We love you too! We just get nervous when certain women go on and on about how they "need a big cock." Some even on this site lol.

[hellionthesage]

Actually it matters, the irony is that it matters for him to be confident not because of actual size. I read an article where multiple women complained about guys with small penisis but the complaints usually consisted of him freaking out about it or being so unconfident that he could not perform. A few women mentioned being with guys with small penisis and it was some of the best sex they had purely because he was confident and knew how to use it. So good take, though I wish this would apply to women as well. Seriously seen a girl freaking out about her calfs, seriously who scrutinizes calfs?

[aniemist]

I think it does matter to some people, but its good to know there are those whom it doesn't matter as well. If someone doesn't like you solely because of one feature of you body tho then they are shallow. there's no sense in worrying about it, you have what you have, that is what you were given when you were born, there is little that can be done about it so there is no point in worrying over it.

[SincerelyKay]

The G-Spot is located within the first 2 inches from the entrance of the vagina, so its more than likely that you'll give her pleasure with your little peter (-;

[DaveyYourFavey]

I have known for a good while now that size really doesn't matter. How? By actually listening to women! Seriously, guys go on about how important a big d is and how much women love it. But it's all a bunch of insecure and exaggerated bs. Listen to girls! According to most women, average is best. And according to a lot of women 8 inches or above is too much and can actually hurt. Unless you're under 4 Inches, size really isn't going to be an obstacle and even then, if you work and try different positions, there shouldn't be a problem.

[heywhisper]

Very true. I prefer average penises. I know most of my girlfriends do too.

[tattooedhandfet]

"Cocks and hands
And forearms, stomachs... and legs oh my!
Aren't men beautiful?"

Sounds very similar to a lot of the things I say...

[just4fun2013]

Size completely matters, but also how hard it stays. There's no pleasure with a big size if it's a softy. But overall size DOES matter. And I don't understand how many women are not able to orgasm with sex without the clit rubbing. 99% of the time I have sex I orgasm, the 1% is usually because I'm tired and don't really care if I orgasm or not.

[Anno_Domini]

How big is your boyfriend, though?

[Red_Arrow]

On your first point, a lot of women who experience a "vaginal orgasm" often are experiencing an orgasm because the guy's pubic arch is stimulating her clitoris while having intercourse. So it is again about "how you use it." If the woman was not getting the clitoral stimulation that way, many of that percentage wold not be having an orgasm.

This is a pretty good Take. But do proof read. Vaginas that start at 3' would be awfully deep. lol

[SleepyChan]

THANK YOU!!!

[CheerGirl38139]

Yay! Thank You!!

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[godfatherfan]

lol.. wow, all that might be true. but i still say all you women are full of shit. If he can't eat pussy right then damn straight your going to care about size a lot more.

[myTake Owner]

Very mature of you.

[JuicyBrain]

Awwww... I love you too women ! You make life much more interesting

[notthatgirl]

FINALLY! However, I don't think these questions will ever stop. I think men are worried of their size because they want to impress other men, not women.

[Sjeggy]

well why not both? i am insecure because i don't want to dissappoint, and also not feel insecure when showering after gym class :p

[Roostah]

" it means we have chosen you because of your character, behaviour, kindness and so on. Many women don't give a s**t about your penis."

Let me correct that for you

" it means we have chosen you because of your money, looks, social status and so on. Many women don't give a s**t about your penis"

[crystalt70]

Wrong. I'm sure there are some women who choose men that way, but not all women do. Personally, I am looking for someone who isn't going to cheat on me, lie to me, be abusive in any way, treat me like crap, etc.

[Rocky19]

You got that right, women say they want someone romantics that will respect them, treat them right, and when they meet me they ignore him and go for some asshole guy that will cheat on her truth be told girls actually like that drama

[LightsOff]

Oh yeah, I totally dated that one broke student guy who lived together with his sister because he couldn't afford his own place... because he had the money and social status. Lmao. Good looking yes, but 0 fashion sense. Didn't buy me one thing that I didn't pay him back for in some way. Incredibly kind, funny and well-behaved. Stop being so bitter.

[RexCatholicissimus]

@LightsOff "I totally dated that one broke student guy who lived together with his sister because he couldn't afford his own place..." "Good looking yes, but 0 fashion sense. Didn't buy me one thing that I didn't pay him back for in some way." Ahh, tale amore! Such reverence! Such kind words you speak about this wonderful pauper man with. So much that the relationship ended and you still remember that he never bought you things and that you always had to pay him back to this day.

[LightsOff]

I didn't HAVE to. I wanted to. He was wonderful, things didn't work out because of certain circumstances that were out of our control. I'm still bummed to this day that we couldn't make it work, and so is he.

[Lolomon]

no offense but this is bull. All women can achieve vaginal orgasm , she just needs to relax during sex most women are thinking. G spot being 2 inches inside the vagina is a myth to make men feel better. Some women like that "ok" feeling meaning it is average or small. Some girls like that "yes" feeling that im full but not too full feeling meaning he is above average. And some girls like the "fuck yes" full feeling , the feeling of it completely feeling you up. It depends on the girl, their isn't a one size fits all, or we all think that way. BUT girth is beyond important im sure all womana love girth and what you do with it.

[DaveyYourFavey]

No offense but this is bull.

[myTake Owner]

I had a man who had an 8 inch penis and he never made me cum in a year. I had a man with an average size and he makes me cum ALWAYS.

[DaveyYourFavey]

So what? I wasn't saying the opposite or anything was I? I'm saying that it's bull that you believe that this take is bull.

[Lolomon]

lol, this is reality. Why are people mad that im saying size matters. The fact any girl that is around her girls will say it does. And like i said it depends on the girls. The people who downvoted this must have small penises

[ThePundertaker]

7 girls downvoted

[ThisDudeHere]

Yeah except it does.

[RexCatholicissimus]

I do love the instant damage control of "b-but muh oral" which is essentially a fancy way of saying "you can't make me cum with your cock, so we pretty much NEED to resort to some other perversions for you to get me off."

[ccp16]

oral is a perversion?

[BertMacklinFBI]

unfortunately this will not strengthen the cause to stop penis size questions lol.

but nice take

[Frost_Byt3]

Well this was quite an ego boost! ... until i read the comments 😞

[DaveyYourFavey]

From what I can see the comments are pretty nice. Except from some guys of course. But don't worry, some guys will never get it out of their heads that "bigger is better" no matter what girls tell them. You're better off ignoring them. They have no idea what girls want. Trust me that girls will not care about size.

[heywhisper]

This is the best take ever! it's so true

[TadCurious]

Excellent myTake. Very well done and a positive message.

[Dєѕιвσу]

Although i feel insecure often not only because i am at the lowest end of average (5.4) but because if inexperience in general.

See..63 comments already and i am sure you are tired of reading it... so i will complete in short.

UNIVERSALLY, size does matter. EVEN FOR YOU. If it lies somewhere between 4.5-6 inches, then it won't matter.
But hey... you will surely dump a guy who is 2 inches.

So, there lies a spectrum where it won't matter.. but beyond prescribed limit.. it will matter.

[BelleGirl21]

Awesome take! Be at peace you adorable men!

[Kaylove96]

Amen! (Filler)

[ImaSloth]

I agree with the oral aspect because I'm completely confident I can make a girl orgasm by oral, my tongue is quiet impressive :P I think size does matter but it's girth that matters, you can be 8 inches but have small girth which makes 8 kind of useless. My penis as an example is around 6" and has a pretty decent girth which means I should be more than well equipped, but I'm no longer worried about my penis size because I decided to focus more on my oral skills, so I can make her ready for me... Always thinking..

[bubble_tea]

That's like saying body size of women don't matter. The reality is many have a range where it doesn't matter, but it matters to many when you're outside of their prefered size range.

[SomeoneImportant]

It does matter, just depends on the context.

Also, women tend to take pride in the fact that they aren't as shallow as men. Which is why most say it doesn't matter.

Women who say it does are usually immediately labeled as some shallow, loose vagina whore. So they don't want to be grouped into that

But, why would saying what better physically stimulates you sexually, make you shallow?

I mean, it makes sense to me that a bigger one would be better (again, how much bigger depends on the chick), it would hit more spots and what not.

[art_of_sin]

Thank you for this! I was getting tired of those questions also😊 like they say, " it's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean"

[MattDamonAndFriends]

Does my asshole size matter I take big shits and as a result my asshole is ruined, what if I turn off and she sees my gaping ass will she be scared that I used her grandpas dildo collection

[RexCatholicissimus]

top kek

[MattDamonAndFriends]

Thank you sir

[Phoenix98]

No here's the real reason penis size DOESN'T matter!

Because we don't give a fuck about the subject.

[Browneye57]

Thank the lord for small favors. LOL
Someone that gets it.

[Tarvold]

Lies. All lies.

There are only two reasons why size doesn't matter - 1.) you are already her perfect size, or 2.) she has yet to experience someone who is her perfect size and doesn't know what she's missing out on.

[Drednaught]

Well, if someone actually loves you, then I fail to see why any of these trivial things should matter. Also, that picture of a banana made me hungry, and I have nothing to eat. You've doomed me!

[genericname85]

well to us it matters but i guess humans just like to focus on things they can´t change anyway.

[Unit1]

Finally! Someone, who speaks my mind about that 'near worthless to discuss' topic.

I love you too! This take is great and true! I always knew, that size doesn't matter.

There are more objects on this world, which do matter in life greater than someone's penis size. What I say is the world does not revolve around dicks. It revolves around the sun. There are other things for me to worry about and I make it worthwhile to take care of. No need for headbanging.

[jjmarvin]

ok 1 inch speaking. Yeah a lot of people have "chosen me for me" but its like once they see it they dont even think of me as a person anymore. they dont treat me like a human being, but a mistake. the vast majority never even gave me a chance, they had their minds made up and left. i had done something wrong by their standard. thats the real pov I've received.

[RamyDarwishEG]

I think the problem is that sluts are more heard than sensible women

I -for myself - love you too whoever you are , and i hope that every girl i meet is like and that my wife/gf will be like you

Good people with golden hearts are there , there are a LOT of them , but they are either hiding or masking themselves in this world we live in , u made my day happy :)

[John_Doesnt]

That might be true for you, but it's not true for every woman. And I don't think penis size matters to some women just because of the possible orgasm. Men can't get off from a woman with bigger boobs, but many of us still prefer a woman with huge boobs.

[Ihav2fart]

So my 1 inch is okay? :O

[SilenRose]

Well at least you have the support of your male community. o. o;

[Ihav2fart]

@SilenRose Sigh* I never get any female supporters. ;(

[SilenRose]

I'll back you up just this one time. 😂

[Ihav2fart]

@SilenRose I've been told it's all about the motion of the ocean, but the thing is I'm just a little plankton in the ocean.

[SilenRose]

Don't underestimate plankton. Even plankton can get some lovin'!

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[Ihav2fart]

@SilenRose not all plankton are created equal ;(

[SilenRose]

That is true. 😯

[RationalMale]

Ehh, from my experience with women... yeah, it matters. It's kinda like if a woman has awesome boobs and a toned stomach.

I suppose it doesn't "matter" but it very much will be appreciated by the guy. Girls have the same thing... things that might not "matter" are very much appreciated. They love it.

[takumii]

Oh you love us huh?

I have a 0 inch penis, considering penis size doesn't matter , would you fuck me?

[Dipsy]

Did you forget that 0 is nothing?

[takumii]

If the penis size doesn't matter, then our species would not had evolved us to have 6 inch long dongs.

[NovaLS]

It is true that humans have some of the biggest dicks compared to many other primates. Giant Gorillas have about an inch and a half fully erect

[UncompromisingAI]

Size doesn't matter

Until you encounter a 3" penis.

[bomba78]

exactly...

[Hwlsop]

or a 10 inch penis

[gobsmacked3]

The thing you fail to mention is that it does matter when you have a big penis for many women are worried about the pain that goes with it

[sp33d]

I would pay to have this take be made by a guy and then see the comments :D

[myTake Owner]

Haha why?

[blondfrog]

Yeah except a lot of women have been vocal about penis size whether it is important for stimulation or not it doesn't matter cause most women do care about it. Its like with boobs some guys care about the size others don't whether its logical or not it doesn't matter the opposite gender likes it and if you don't have it then your in trouble.

[sexcrazy1]

judging from one of your comments: 'I just really like big penis' I take it a 12" stiffy will work for you ;-)

[red_knight]

Well done..

[James19]

Really nice take.

[Omar5881]

Nice take I HOPEEEE people STOP ASKING SIZE QUESTIONS ANYMORE

[JaysunPt]

Awe, she's nice and encouraging. It does matter to some woman though, otherwise known as size queens. Ask a bodybuilder with a small penis if she made fun of him.

[redhotchillipapers]

i think penis size is important for guys not for girls