Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!

I've seen many questions on this topic, so let me explain you why many women don't care about penis sizes.

Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!

1) Only 30% of women can actually experience a "vaginal" orgasm during sex with sole penetration and without clit rubbing.

Why would we care about your penis size if most of the time it can't make us cum? Trust me, we are more concerned about your oral/fingering skills.

Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!


2) The vagina sensitivity lies only in the first third of its lenght. Yes, you got it right.

3) The lenght of the vagina varies from 3' to 4'.5" and it's specifically designed to accomodate every size.

4) We are having sex with you because we like YOU.

When you first meet someone you have no clue of his equipment down there. If we decide you're worth it, it means we have chosen you because of your character, behaviour, kindness and so on. Many women don't give a s**t about your penis.

Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!

5) We'll adore your penis because it's YOURS.

If we're into you, if we love you, we'll love it too. Not because it's big, not even because it looks nice, but because it's attached to your body, to you.

Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!


So please, stop asking whether size matters or not. The answer is: no, it doesn't. If it does it means we're not that much into you anyway. At that point you should find someone who truly cares about you and make you feel like you're worth it.

A big hug to all of you who are having troubles and who are worried because of this.

I LOVE YOU MEN. You're special creatures.

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  • it does matter... politically correct society says it doesn't

  • I feel the same way. maybe some women care about size, but I don't. and even the few that do don't care nearly as much as guys

    • Wrong Girls would rather blow a big d than a small one.

    • @Floyd790 how would you know? Don't you think you should listen to girls about that? You're a perfect example of a guy who's got it into his head that bigger is better. I don't blame you for making that mistake but at least take a step back an listen to the people doing the blowing?

    • @DaveyYourFavey Girls prefer bigger dicks period

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  • I love this post my bf's dick is 13 cm and It doesn't matter to me

    • That is exactly average according to all the statistics

  • Guys, im 5inches. But you need to held your head up and own it dont be scared of it. Women are turned off with a insecure unconfident Guy.. When you can love yourself. Any women can love you.. Rock it dont be ashamed of it.. Spend longer on foreplay. Use a cock ring. But when you own it and not ashamed comfortable happy with your size.. A women will love you for you.. She loves you your looks personality humour kindness loving heart.. And a long session on foreplay and being dead romantic. Girls will love you and over look your size.. Yes your still find the size queens. But there are amazing women out there. That dont care.. and want a amazing confident funny romantic kind hearted Guy... So be proud of your size and and girls will love you.. But you have to love yourself 1st

  • Oh, you are still in your 20's, no wonder.

    Wait a little bit til you get to yours late 30's and have more experience, I believe that you would change your narrative.

  • What's next your gonna tell me that Height? and Money don't matter to women too lol.

    • In fact. At least to me. I don`t care about them really.

    • It cute and all that your saying ''Size'' doesn't matter but the cold hard truth is it does end of story.

    • Nice, a reality check for the take owner.

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  • penis size DOES matter

  • I don't have an issue with my size I'm not big but I'm not insecure yet this whole sensitivity only lies within the first 3 inches of the vagina is nonsense or else why do women get pleasure out of men going in deep?

    • I am just guessing. It could be that some women enjoy the feeling of a man hitting her cervix? That's really the only explanation I can give because it is true. We can't feel much past the first few inches. I mean, we can feel it, but there's none of the great sparkly woohoo that you get from the clit and initial penetration. It's just a nice pressure.

  • I care about this size bc:
    1. It looks better bigger
    2. I am one of those women who can get vaginal orgasms
    3. It means it is easier for him to impregnate you because it is closer to the cervix (the vagina expands and lengthens during stimulation to more than 3-4 inches).

    • Amaxing.

  • I'm the 30% that can achieve vaginal orgams and I'm positive that's due to the thick penises I've had inside me.. because there's pressure all around your vagina, so also a lot of pressure on your gspott area, the area where your clitoris expands inside. I achieve vaginal orgams more easy than clitoral orgams induced by another person.

    Size does matter. And all my male gay friends say the exact thing. Size matters.. too small is not good but too big is also not good. But maybe we're just a bunch of size queens. Next to that, the power of visual stimulance is huge for me. The sight of a big dick turns me on SO MUCH that I have even slept with ugly men who happen to have big dicks LOL!. It's the same thing some people have with for example musicians, he can be ugly but because of his extraordinary talent he becomes more attractive. Big dick = attractive in my book.

    • Ugly guy w big Dick lol, you sound like a slut

    • If that's what you want to call me.. whatever :))) Probably I am. I don't care. If I did I wouldn't do the things I do. I just really like big penis. I even have Dian Hanson's The Big Penis Book. Seriously!

    • Lol hahaha, just wondering, are you the only one like that or do you have a lot of friends who are like that as well.

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  • I say it matters to some extent. Already mentioned (by others) why. But I wanna add that it's more important to think about the thickness of the penis than the length. It's true that the most sensitive nerve endings at the outer-most part of the vagina so the extra length is not that big a deal. The reason why thickness matters more is because that's what stretches, fills her up, and creates greater friction inside. But again there is a too small and a too big.

  • It was a nice article, and quite reassuring... though the "special creatures" remark kind of sounded a bit condescending. :P

  • "Only 30% of women can actually experience a "vaginal" orgasm during sex with sole penetration and without clit rubbing."

    My experience of 28 lovers is two were anorgasmic (at least up to that point) and the other 26 all had orgasms during penetrative sex with no other stimulation. That's an almost unbelievable coincidence if only 30% of women can have orgasms under those conditions. The fact is when you say only 30% of women can, you mean only 30% of women HAVE. I don't know if my experience is because of my penis size, (just less than 8" long and about 7 1/4 " around at the thickest point) or shape (conical, about 5 1/2" at the tip, the glans is smaller than the shaft, and 7 1/4" at the base, about the size of a beer bottle) but that would seem to be a distinct possibility. A very experienced lover I had who was a nurse told me my penis was the ideal shape because my thrusts have a very definite sensation by stretching the opening of the vagina. So I think size can certainly matter. I like giving oral (not getting it, teeth get in the way) and i seem to be pretty good at it but every woman I have ever been with wants to go more or less straight to penetration after the first few times we are together. I also have pretty good endurance (but a terrible recovery time).

  • I knew that all alone, if you know how to work her until she finish first then we men just go and we finish last, this is how I do it, I want her to enjoy too, is all that matter to me.

  • While I want the penis size questions to stop I highly doubt a penis under 4 inches can pleasure a woman

  • I like this post.

  • Size may not be the most important thing, but it does matter some. Women have all sorts of different sexual preferences and a lot of them want more than just oral. If a guy has a micro penis he won't be sexually compatible with a lot of women. There are even a lot of women that will admit that size matters to them. At most you can say size doesn't matter to you. More accurately you have just never been with a guy so small that it created a problem for you.

  • Finally,... somebody answered!!
    Thank you so much girl! ...
    you're really nice! :)
    ...
    I really felt relieved after reading this!!
    ...
    May God bless me with such a wife who'll be really into me!! <3
    (who'll never care about my d**k size)

  • You have sex with us because you're horny
    Not because you like us

    • That's not true, there's a difference between f**cking and making love.

    • Bro, you're 19 Wtf do you know about making love @Taell

    • @Taell : there is difference between fucking and making love? Euphemism kid. You don't do cobra twist yoga when you make love, you fuck.

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  • As a man with a 4" length and 4" girth, I would love to believe what you're saying, but the truth is that vaginas expand when aroused, so my size is never going to be enough to pleasure a woman when her vagina is bigger than my girth and length.

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