His parents heard us having sex

[Anonymous]

so embarrassed. me and my boyfriend had sex and his parents (and little sister) heard us. we tried to have sex quietly, but orgasms are not that easy to do quiet. I really want them to like me. his mom likes me, but his dad is kinda more reserved with me. I don't know. how can I not be embarrassed and ashamed when I meet them next time. we are both 20, he lives in the basement.

[jacquesvol]

He lives in the basement and his parents (and little sister) heard you? That must have been a good one. Are you really sure they heard it? Such things can happen to everybody. Last month my wife heard our neighbors doing it. (I was asleep) Nobody judges them here (or you) The little sister might be the most judgemental. Charm her a bit.

Don't worry, it probably happened to his parents too, 20 years ago.

They're adult people and know about the realities of life. They'll forget that. As long as his mom likes you everything is OK.

[Asker]

Thank you, this helps! :))

[jacquesvol]

Simple: the day your son brings a 20 yo girlfriend to his room and stays there with her: will YOU think they're reading comics all the time? My son did it, we never wondered what they could be doing. Over 18 those things happen naturally. They happened 1000-2000 years ago and will happen in the year 3013. No parent with adult children has any illusions about that unless he's VERY disconnected from reality. We didn't ask, just raised his allowance so that he could buy or pay her BC.

[yopyopyop]

You have two options : go hide at the top of the highest moutain in the vicinity, survive on roots and become a hermit.

Or don't care about something that natural.

[Flippydaydream]

Time will heal you, trust me my boyfriends dad walked in on me sucking him off. and another time I was naked and drunk and went to get a drink from the fridge it was so late I didn't think but his dad walked into the kitchen. Its like it never happened now...they want to forget as you do.

[Asker]

haha :) I'm sorry to say this, but this made me feel better about the whole situation. Thank you.

[Flippydaydream]

yep :D

[SparklingFirefly]

Chances are, they know y'all are sexually active. Yeah it's pretty embarrassing that they heard you, but the embarrassing phase will pass and soon it will be forgotten. Just make sure you keep up the good relationship with his family and everything should be fine!

[serp777]

Seriously get over it. How do you even know that they heard you? We're you like, oh by the way, we just had sex, not sure if you knew that but I wanted to let you know.

Also a guy living in his parent's basement has a girlfriend, let alone sex? What has this world turned into?

[Asker]

what are you so mad about? bad day...?

[serp777]

Mad is the incorrect term. What makes you think I'm mad? More like bewildered

[Pelios]

How do you know they heard you?

[Asker]

I know they heard us because they wanted to give us some food they made, but was to scared to come in, so his mom yelled from the hall about the food being in front of the door and we could come and get it when we were done.

[AnnabelLee]

HAHAHAHAHA

[hannibal214]

you two sound like children. 20 years old, living in his parents' basement, and his mom bringing dinner down like a waitress?

sad

[Asker]

it wasn't dinner... it was snacks they made and wanted to share it with us, and why are you commenting again...?

[Asker]

go away

[hannibal214]

how about not having sex in his parents' house?

[Asker]

...

[AnnabelLee]

Cause 20 yo usually are so rich to pay for a motel every time...

[SaltandVinegar]

Your both 20 they don't care don't worry about it!