Holding my hand during blow job?

[Anonymous]

The first time I did it, we were cuddling and he stayed in that position with arms around me and occasionally squeezed or rubbed my arm during the blow job now the second time he reached for my hand and held it and then another time squeezed it/grabbed it what does that mean? He cares about me more than just sexually? I've never had a guy hold my hand during that... lol

[AndeD]

I think its a sign of his emotional connection with you, holding hands is generally a more intimate action and so maybe its his way of connecting with you more. Squeezing your hand could be his way of communicating to you what feels good or not. Squeezing probably means you're doing really well :P I think its kinda cute that he wants to do that and I'm positive he cares about you more than just sexually, a guy who doesn't would not hold your hand!

[Asker]

Sometimes we'll cuddle (he'll tell me it's okay if I want to lay my head on him or something or he'll just do it) and he'll rub my elbow or "tickle" it kind of gently It feels more friendly or maybe awkward than flirty do you think it's his way of flirting or showing me he cares?

[AndeD]

I think its his way of showing affection towards you, just feeling you there beside him. I like to rub my girlfriends arm or squeeze her a bit or pull her into me just to show her more affection. It could be his way of flirting Idk, if its awkard then just lean into him when he does it and make him hold you rather than tickle your elbow. OR tell him something you do like, maybe a back massage? the tell him youd like that

[summiter]

I think it is great and you should feel that he is trying to establish a higher level of intimacy. Take it as a compliment!

What do you do when he is going down on you? Hold his hand the next time he gives you some oral pleasure...he better be if you are doing it to him. You deserve some good orgasms also.

Let me know what happens and enjoy the hand holding!

[Asker]

he grabs me during my oral time lol and I hold his head mostly or touch him

[hannibal214]

it means he's probably gay

[Anonymous]

i think he doenst know wha to do

[Anonymous]

It means he cares about you and he has feelings for you.

[Anonymous]

I like and demand no hands bj's

[Asker]

I barely used my hands. I think it's more fun trying to go long without using your hands and just use your mouth lol

[Opinion Owner]

My kind of woman!

[Anonymous]

I like to hold hands during oral (giving and receiving) sometimes. It's because I feel close to her, and it feels more intimate. Yes it's a sign that he feels emotionally close to you, not just sexually close.