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Hooking up with a first-timer?

Is there anything special you guys make sure to do when dealing with a fist time hookup?
I do my best to avoid all first time hookup-ers. too much work
Vote A
I LOVE hooking up with people when its their first time!!
Vote B
I don't care either way. it depends on the person
Vote C
I guess I would hookup with someone if it was their first time, but only if I really liked them
Vote D
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Hey girl! I'm just saying to relax and go with the flow. All right? No need to tell them it is your first time making out. Just act like you know what you are doing and everything is good. I recommend just opening your mouth a little wide and if they put their tongue in your mouth, just see how they move their tongue moves around in your mouth, and then you can add your tongue with their pattern. Hope all goes well!

    Don't be embarrassed either. If anything wrong happens, just continue on (making out, of course ;])

    But if they STOP because you messed up or whatever, just laugh it off.

    Good thing you are not talking about sex...haha, because I recommend NOT hooking up for your first time of that. There are so many STD's now and prego's etc.

    • Nooo its not me who hasn't hooked up before its him. hahaha

    • Oh, haha. then take the lead ;]...he'll be good practice too.

    • Hahaha yeah i bet you're right

Most Helpful Guy

  • At my age a first time hook up the girl is of course not a virgin. So I don't know if you meant first time in general or with a virgin.

    So I voted "D"

    If I think that there is going to be a chance for sex I make sure that I am well groomed down below & clean. I usually use unscented baby wipes in that area. If I've done my "duty" earlier in the day I of course make sure that I shower before the date cleaning that area well & the grooming as I said earlier.

    Is this what you were looking for?

    • Hahaha uhm well I mean I mean making out because I'm very close to being in a relationship with someone, but I think they feel shy or uncomfortable about the fact that I'm more experienced than them i just wanted to know if I should talk to him about it and say like "hey I'm okay with the fact that youve never hooked up before and I want to be your first" or if I should say something a little different saying I am the girl

    • Sorry. I don't think that I would bring the subject up at all. Try to put yourself in that persons shoes. Would you want him telling you he's more experienced or did this or that with an ex? Take the lead a little bit & I'm sure he will follow. Remember the first time(s) you made out? You probably were a bit nervous. You learned. Mother nature will take her course. Again I'm sorry that I misunderstood the question.

    • Hahaha oh its fine thank you a lot though for the advice sorry the question wasnt really that clear in the first place

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