How can adult clean shaven genitals look like that of a 12 year old?

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I don't understand this thought that women and men have. I am a guy and I keep my genitals clean shaved and my rest of body isn't much hairy to begin with.Why do women who shave/wax their own genitals say that total smooth shaved on men look too kiddish and should have some hair hence need only be trimmed closely....adult genitals are OBVIOUSLY different from a 12year old kid. And keeping their own pubic area smooth make them kid?Why this double standard?

herturn · Accepted Answer

I was wondering when this might come up.

First of why I maintain my clean shaved growing area.

I love the feel of sex more whether they are shaved or not , if they are totally untouched it is a pain to eat some times but once wet and aroused their hair feels erotic on my bare skin, and if they are shaved the slippery wet skin on skin feelings also erotic in a different way and running my tongue and chin all over it as I am enjoying their climax is an added feature to them so in intercourse that same wet slippery skin on skin seems to feel pretty erotic to them as well!

Now for the why I did it.

“COMITY” When I was younger 20 something I was going down on my wife “now EX” and got a pubs wrapped around my tonsil it was tight and kinky enough that I was un able to expel it all night I hacked and gaged trying to get it off eat bread, drank milk, peanut butter and gargled with everything it was there for three days! To the day we divorce “4 or 5 years later” she never allowed me down there again she was convinced it made me sick!

Now not so comical.

Not so long back I had to care for my father in his last days, changing his diaper was bad enough but seeing that his pubic hair was longer than any hair that I or he had any ware else on our body was a dramatic issue for me for some reason. So the next time I was trimming up down there and clipping out the wild ones “gray ones” and my girlfriend had shaved for me just because I had said I never had any bald p****, and I knew a male nurse was going to shave me latter in the week so I did it loved it and my phoebe is gone and unless asked I will probably not stop shaving down there.

As far as the ex’s remarks and some of them here I don’t think I will ever look 12 unless that’s what’s in your head. I think it looks cleaner I feel sexier and do prefer women that way “not required”

madhatters4 · Accepted Answer

why? because children are hairless down there. so if you are hairless some people may see the similarity

this isn't a double standard. On Halloween let's say you dress up like a clown. you wear the wig, floppy shoes, suspenders and oversized pants, but minimal face paint. Someone may say you look like a clown. Now obviously the know you aren't a clown and can see in your face that you are still you but you also have dressed up like a clown

Or as dave chappelle said. If a girl dresses up like a whore in a club a guy may treat as such even though it is clear that she isn't in fact a whore

it's not a double standard just a simple act of the mental association of certain visual stimuli with an ingrained understandings...

fact is though plenty of people don't feel that way. they may shave or wax bald or not see people who do the way you described

samhradh_leannan · Accepted Answer

Prepubescent children don't have pubic hair. Adults have pubic hair. Therefore hairless genitals are reminiscent of prepubescent genitals in some sense. The logic is pretty darn clear.

Does it mean you're actually going to be mistaken for a 12 year old? No, of course not. Does it mean your genitals actually resemble the genitals of a 12 year old? Again, no. Whether or not you're going to see shaven genitals as looking younger, and whether or not you're going to be bothered by it, all depends on personal opinion and your way of thinking about it. But it's perfectly clear why shaven genitals may appear more childish in a sense to some people. Nobody is arguing that it actually makes you a kid.

sockz · Accepted Answer

While many say they don't mind whether their guy shaves or not, I've literally never heard any woman objected to shaving.  Never have I heard this argument about it looking childish on men, though I have heard it applied to women before.  To my mind, it comes from more radical schools of thought in gender studies.  It's on par with saying skyscrapers are built vertically because they're secretly meant to resemble penises; or women who wear lipstick are trying to mimic the color of a sexually aroused vagina.  It's just that ridiculous.  Only a twisted mind would draw those comparisons.

musicbrain5 · Accepted Answer

I thought that about myself when I waxed once. Now I just trim lol. As for a guy, I'd rather that he have hair down there. There's something unappealing about the no hair look, and it's probably because in the back of my mind I think grown adults should have hair there.

DoctorKillJoy · Answer

I don't think so, some people are dumb and sometimes people whom aren't have to put up with them age their dumb comments and opinions...c'est la vie. :(

T-shirtsandkneehighs · Answer

I don't mind if the guys shaven, waxed , trimmed or whatever

MikeK · Answer

As a man who shave practically everything except his eyebrows himself, I must say I too find some hypocrisy in this double standard...

Tarvold · Answer

You're right, it's a totally bullsh*t and irrational argument that feminazis invented to shame men for having a preference in these matters.

The fact is, men's genitals are easily distinguished from that of boys with and without hair, and women's... well, most guys have no idea what a female pre-pubescent's genitals look like to begin with.

Don't buy into their bullsh*t. Do what makes sense for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe yours aren't so obviously different.  Sorry man. . .

Anonymous · Answer

LOL what the hell?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't htink they look weird, I appreciate clean shaven genitals

Anonymous · Answer

Because women think that we as men all want a bare vagina and that they are "cleaner", which are both untrue.

How can adult clean shaven genitals look like that of a 12 year old?

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