How can I convince my man to use condoms?

He doesn't like them along with most men. I'm not on birth control but he just tells me he's gonna pull out and he can't stay hard with one on so I give in to him and we just use pulling out. We're not ready to be parents anytime soon so I don't know why he just won't put the condom on. should I just be like no glove no love on his ass
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  • Simply just tell him you are not going to have sex with him if he doesn't use one. If he doesn't have enough respect for you after that you should rethink your relationship because you deserve much better. Pre nut can cause pregnancy. You are more susceptible to STDS as well. Be smart dear, don't do it if you don't want to. Good Luck! :)

  • hella hard core no glove no love be strong

    check out iuds they are really convenient and scream hell no to cummys copper t has no side affects according to my bff and I have mirena which is like I low dose pill no periods but random spotting and occasional period symptoms

    but NO BABys its nearly as effective as sterilization

  • Well pulling out is NOT the answer. You can still get pregnant from "Pre-cum". Tell him that you're trying to be responsible and don't want a kid yet. And yes, I would TOTALLY go for the "No glove, No love." Hm... I might have to use that saying sometime. It's funny. Best of luck!

    Mariah

    • hey go ahead an use it lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • "Pulling out" is the same as coitus interuptus. link

    It doesn't have a good reputation considering pre-cum does contain viable sperm.

  • "I don't have sex without condoms." I've never even *heard* of this one failing.

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  • get your self on the pill you still can get knocked up with him pulling out because if he don't pull out before he comes and even a little bit could end up inside you. why take the chance you can go to the free clinic and get b/c. and you should be using condoms because of STD's but if you two are only having sex with each other just get on the pill and be done with it. Don't take the chance that he's going to even put one on look out for your self.

    • She obviously doesn't think it's fair that she should 'have to' use protection and not him, a lot of women are like that. They'll even try to tell guys that it feels the same.

    • you can still get knocked up with a condom or worse an sdt and she said he won't put one on and your right it isn't fair that she should have to but if he won't do it she's got to look out for her self and its sad to say most men won't use a condom this day in age with everything that's out there

  • He's an idiot and an unserious person. Dump him and find someone who isn't such a dolt.

  • Suggest that he babysit a few times without pay. Best birth control ever.

  • Tell him you accidently had sex with a fox... and now you have aids

    • lmao omg

  • Assuming he has a computer or some sort, tell 'em to took up the word ALIMONY"

  • this way; force! game or no game.

  • You can try no glove no love, but that may backfire. I'll go without before I will bag it.

    20 years, no scares.

    • Can't argue with experience.

  • The Femidom: link

    • You might be interested to read this article (but I've the impression that it was written before the dischovery of Viagra and Cialis): link

  • yup just tell him he won't get it in without one. if he really wants it he'll comply but if he says no drop him because he must care more about himself than he dose you

    • Agreed!

    • see I'm SmArt =D

  • dont they suck :(

  • No condoms, no sex: it works always.

    If he can't stay hard with one, it's just his brains, not his d!ck.

    Pulling out and calendar methods are the worst methods there are: high failure rate and moreover, pulling out leads to overcontrol for him , which may lead to future inability of getting a normal orgasm.

    Use condoms, BC-pills, Nuvaring, IUD, whatever but use something!

  • There was a really great study done recently that showed that there was extremely little difference in feeling with condoms on. So little that something like 90% couldn't feel the difference.

    Either you get on birth control, he uses the condom, or you don't have sex. But the pulling out technique is not going to stop you from getting preggers.

    • lol nonsense. There's a huge difference in feeling for the men.

    • Apparently its mostly psychological. I can't find the study because I forgot the scientists name, but it tested guys by either rolling on a condom or rolling on a ring of elastic (leaving the rest of it bare) and then asking them what the difference was when it was inserted into this thing.. If I find it, I'll post it. Point being that most men did not feel a difference, and by most I mean the vast majority.

    • I most also disagree! With a condom on it's impossible to feel the moistness and warmth of a vagina.

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