How can I get a guy to go "downtown" on me?

for those of you guys who ENJOY doing this, please help me: I've only had this done to me with 2 boyfriends. after that I've been dating guys who weren't into it, and then the last guy I dated was completely into it but wouldn't do it to me just said 'i wish I could' (out of his own volition) while we were messing around. I don't smell bad, and I shave - what is the problem? help!
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  • I think a guy is into it or he's not! If he's into it, like he really wants to do it but doesn't, it could be because he's too shy or doesn't seem to know how to get it started. I don't think the smelling or taste thing has much to do with it because that should actually turn a guy on that's into pleasuring a girl that way. I don't think a lot of guys realize how exciting and stimulating it is to go down on a girl and how much of a turn that starts to be once he starts getting into doing that. Also, how much his girl enjoys it and how sexually exciting it is for her and how much easier it is for her to come that way - much easier than when having sex. I like when my girl is natural, like how she just happens to be when we both find ourselves both horny for me to go down on her. This could be on the spur of the moment during the day or at night after returning from a date or from a day of fun and teasing each other. That's when she smells and tastes the best. Don't be afraid to hint how much you enjoy having him go down on you and make it easy for him to start. Tell him how much more you'll like him for doing that and that you'll help him get started and lead him along the way until he's learned how to pleasure you until you can't stand it anymore, and how much more of a man he'll feel like once he's made you come doing that. If none of this helps, he's just not the right kind of dude that will ever be good at doing that. Maybe he's gotten some bad information from some of his inexperienced young selfish friends. Make sure not to go out of your way to do any favors for him either. Good lucki!

  • Everybody is into their own thing. Maybe they were scared of not being able to perform for you and were embarrassed. I wouldn't worry about it and go out and find someone who does like it. For example, I love it. The only time I don't want to do it is if there is something physically wrong (i.e. infection or something similar).

  • I've noticed that some guys are like repulsed by going "downtown." And some guys are in love with it. Mine won't hardly stop. It's getting old to me at this point. You want to borrow him. Just kidding! Anyways, just be patient, and keep expressing how much you like it. Most guys will do it, if for no other reason than just to please you.

    • You made me laugh! thanks I appreciate it.