How can I get him more into bondage?

I have been getting increasingly interested in bondage and I'm wondering how to get him into it as well and make sure that he's comfortable. any tips
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  • Leave links of bondage related to websites on his Favorites, catch him visitng it and try and start a conversation about it. Try to start it as an objective discussion or catch him viewing the bondage link website, get upset at him stating, "Is this what you want, I am going to show you what it really feels like", if during the conversation or more direct approach he seems to react by getting hard, that's your cue, you can literally grab his hardness and pretty much take over from there if you like as well.

    Halloween is another interesting and fun way of introducing it. You can always tell him that there is a late Halloween party with you dressed in Leather as Dominatrix, get his reaction, ask him if he would like to see you more often as a Mistress jokingly, if you see his body language or answer where he is drooling, push the envelope by slashing a whip (metaphorically by getting serious or for real as well). If he nods that he likes to see you in leather touching all your curves, you can always tell him that beware what you wish for, as Mistresses like to tie up their submissives.

    If he has a little fun you can slowly push the envelope. The key is controlling his orgasms, believe it or not you can make your guy pretty much do anything you like including a lot more kinky stuff then you can imagine if you control his orgasms, Order CBT6000 online and see if you can lock his **** up, once you are the key holder, you pretty much rule every other aspect of his life.

    You can start as a fun bedroom kink and gradually turn it into a lifestyle choice.

    These were some of the few things my ex-gf tried it with me and it sure did work.

    • I'm more into the being dominated range of bondage. I've asked him on several occassions to tie me up but he rarely does it... I think he's afraid of hurting me

    • Then there are videos of girls being hogtied and abused which you can be watching when he walks in and you can ask him if he thinks it's hot and also tell him that you think it's incredibly sexy how she relinquishes control out of love for her Master and you wonder if you could feel that too or would he man up enough to try it with you. These days you can find excat fetish video to cater to your fantasy.

  • You have to keep in mind that some guys simply don't have the "dominant gene" in them, and will never be comfortable in that role. Other guys can act it well, but aren't really into it, and again, you probably won't get what you want. When it comes to fetishes, you can rarely "make" someone like one - instead, you have to FIND someone who already does.

    But, let's assume that your guy is reasonably comfortable with the CONCEPT, but is just concerned about the execution, meaning: hurting you. If that's the case, then listen to his concerns and address them together. Then, start out "light" and work your way up to being rougher. Encourage him along the way, and make sure he knows (i.e., TELL HIM, IN DETAIL) how much it turns you on.

    And explain to him, if he doesn't already know/realize, that much of this isn't physical, but mental, and that he can tease and use words and "threats" to accomplish a lot, with some physical added in for spice.

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  • Knock him out, tie him up and do as you please. Guys don't report rape, he'll take that sh*t to his grave.

  • If you're the one on top, spring it on him, start with handcuffs and a blindfold and gradually get heavier and heavier.

    If you're on the bottom, try sending hints that you want to be told what to do, say "sir" or "master" or ask him to use some kinky stuff on you, whatever your preference may be.

    Be warned though, fewer males are into this stuff than females, he might get turned off. If that happens it's probably not YOU, but the acts themselves, if it gets to that then you've got a problem...

    • Thanks ^^

    • No problem, feel free to ask if you need more help with this, I consider myself an authority on this stuff.

    • well any other tips for softcore bottom bondage?