How can I help my guy find my G-spot?

[krisevon]

My guy finds my G-spot on 'accident' at times how can I help him find purposely?

[Stazz76]

The notion of there being a 'spot' can give guys the wrong idea. It's worth doing some reading on the anatomy of the skene's gland / female prostate. This is spongy tissue surrounding the female urethra. It has a head (near the urethral orifice) and a tail (deeper inside the vagina, stimulated through the front wall of the vagina a.k.a.the g-spot.) It produces varying amounts of prostatic fluid, which is a large component of male semen, and is what is ejaculated when women have squirting orgasms.

As far as helping your guy give you what you need, don't expect him to know exactly what you need, because not all women like sex the same way. It's totally up to you to communicate what you want with him. It's something you can talk about during sex. Just don't say 'you're doing it all wrong', It's more tactful to say 'there's something I'd like you to do for me'.

[Anonymous]

For him to find your g spot, you have to be really horny, that way your g spot will swell and become spongy to touch, and easy to find.

Have him put his finger inside your vagina, about 2 inches deep he will feel it(ensure the palm of his hand is facing towards your stomach, have him stroke his fingers toward the exit of your vagina, this way he will be gently rubbing your g spot, have him repeat this rubbing motion gently and repeatedly. You will orgasm, and hard.

Remember, the g spot feels very spongy and is about the size of a penny, once he finds it, have him remember where it is, because it doesn't move.

Enjoy.

[ivarei]

it's something that's going to require some research, as well as some trial and error, on his part. we can't just write instructions lol.

[Dobie_Gillis]

This one is REALLY easy. Tell him. We like to probe around and find the places that make you go OOOOOOH! but we aren't always the best at figuring out how much pressure, how little pressure, how fast, etc. Believe me, no guy will ever get hurt if you give him a little guidance (physical or verbal or both) if the result is you getting off, because we TOTALLY get off on getting you off. It feeds our egos.

Thing is, those happy spots are in a different place on every woman's body. And some guys are worse than others and interpreting their woman's response to what they are doing. That's why you have to speak up.

[ncsquirll99]

what he said below me. It is a good question but the thing is that we don't know your spots. Every girl is different and we can't see the g-spot. Plus some girls get off to different spots besides the g-spot.. like the u-spot and others etc. The g-spot is just the most common. Let us feel around fingering you and then we will know what you like if you tell us - might suggest the "come hither" motion.. I hear it is best. If you are referring to sex - then it really just is about finding positions that compliment your body shape and size etc.

[baliguy11]

repeat over and over. grab on and be direct. We are trainable...

[iansdabeast]

sex involves a lot of talking and you know your body best. so guiding him is a good way

[chrissyh]

tell him to finger you trying to find it and tell him when he hits the spot, communication is key