I would say that you most definitely need to find another place. I'm surprised that even with all the extra precautions that you have taken that you could relax. Your dad will probably be listening & checking. If this was me & that had happened, there is NO WAY that I could even get it up or have a good time for fear of being caught again.
Car sex isn't that much fun or comfortable but I read where you both are working. Can you afford an inexpensive but clean & safe Motel room once or twice a month? Where do you go the other times? How about a friend(s) that have their own place?
I'm sure that he will be OK but even if your Dad is at work & it's the middle of the day I doubt that he will ever feel comfortable there again.
As far as your Dad goes, he sounds pretty cool but as the old saying goes "as long as your under his roof!"0 0 0 0You need to find a place outside of your dad's house. It is his house, not your own private sex den! If you don't have the resources top find another place -- you are to young to be doing this. Get a job, then a nice room. If sex is so great to you, you should be willing to make some effort to have your own private place.
1 1 0 0Do you think this will help him also feel more comfortable?
And fyi we both have jobs(<plural) and both have cars and we are 19 and 20 we are not that young
Duh?!?! Of course!
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1 3Thank goodness he has the fortitude to come back! Your dad is right; you shouldn't entertain men in your room.
It's really hard to unscramble eggs. You can't do anything to un-traumatize him. That's an inside job. If you try too hard, he'll sense that and be more uptight. Just be patient and understanding. That helps more than anything.
Ted0 0 0 0whats wrong with his place?
0 1 0 0I wouldn't attempt to do anything remotely physical at your place. No way to completely relax there again. He will probably take some time to get used to even being around your dad too. Take it slow. Only try something when he is comfortable. How about a hotel, his place, or out in nature WAY far from other people?
0 0 0 0Avoid overnight sleepovers. He'll heal.
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