How can I get rid of fat fetish and tall fetish?

[Anonymous]

I got rid of giantess fetish and vore fetish. How can I get rid of fat fetish and tall fetish now?

[DarioGolden]

Fetishes are usually a way of dealing with psychological insecurities that arise during daily life (eg. someone who likes being sexually dominated might have a fear of social or physical domination by authority in their daily life, so they explore domination in a safe and enjoyable way via sex). Tall and fat might be more complicated but it should have the same principal, maybe you are insecure about being short and skinny and like the idea of being lusted after by someone who has what you don't, size and weight. If that were the case I'd recommend working through those insecurities in daily life so that they don't spill over into sex. That said, they're pretty harmless fetishes, and I'm sure there are a lot of large, fat women out there who would love to be admired like that, so you should probably just embrace your fetish and have yourself some kinky sex. it doesn't seem to be harming anyone.

[Asker]

You are right, I am a bit short and skinny. I could date a tall/fat girl but I am afraid my family and friends won't understand this.

[DarioGolden]

Do they need to understand? You the only who should care what your partner is like, so long as she's nice and a good match for you, it's not really up to them to pass comment on who you go out with

[Asker]

I don't want to be laughed at by them.

[DarioGolden]

Yea I understand that. Do what you gotta do anyway but whatever you decide just know that doing stuff because you don't want people to laugh at you is a pretty crappy long term strategy. When those people get smart/grow up, they will realise they were assholes and actually respect you for not having listened to them. Really socially confident people aren't cool because nobody laughs at them, they're cool because they don't let people who laugh at them influence how they act.

[thrush70]

when you do tell me how to get rid of my hat fetish

[Anonymous]

I don't think you are able to do that. You can try reducing the porn you view in regards to your fetishes. For example you can try viewing more... vanilla porn. It might help?