How can I spank my girlfriend with a belt without hurting her?

My girlfriend told me she wants to try out spanking with me and that she did it before. I did not think that she would want something like this because she is really sweet and kind and gentle and just seemingly unlikely to be into this sort of thing. She pulled out her belt and told me to use it on her. I told her i was not ready and i would need time. How can i do what she wants without hurting her.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I always wondered how a guy knows what to do with their girlfriend, I guess she will let a guy know what she likes and vice versa. Seems like a girl I would like!

    Does it really have to be for pain, I've seen girls want to playfully be spanked with a belt and they are giggling and the guy is laughing, it's also kind of sexual taking your belt off in front of your partner. If she really wants it for some pain you could start off touching her or rubbing her mabye talking dirty or get on top of her then spank her with the belt and see how she reacts? I've heard of guys or girls taking the belt and gently rubbing the belt buckle along their partners belly button area heard it excites them, see what she thinks.

  • She wants you to hurt her. That's the point. Just don't overdo it

Most Helpful Girls

  • First of all, if you don't feel like doing it, don't do it. Also your girlfriend shouldn't push you into spanking her. Oh and the pain part... She actually wants you to hurt her a bit. She might be one of those who feel certain kind of pain as pleasure when they are aroused. Just don't hit hard, be gentle, never hit anywhere around kidneys or other internal organs and you should be fine. Oh and have a safeword.

    • Thanks. I don't have a problem with it i just want her to feel like i can give her what she wants.

  • If the word "belt" is a metaphor for feathers, that might work. Honestly, if she said she likes it, let her lead. Tell her that she HAS to let you know if she want's it harder, and start off very gentle. After a few times of doing this together, you will get used to her preferences.

  • Why not start with your hand, a hairbrush, or even a spoon? Then you can work up to the idea and decide if a belt is comfortable for both of you or not.

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  • If you don't someone else will...

  • Just pull the spanks and agree on a force that suits you both

  • Just spank her enough to where it stings. She'll enjoy it trust me my boyfriend spanks me all the time sometimes leaves red marks and my butts sore afterwards. It's a spanking it's supposed to hurt I never get mad because my boyfriend left marks if I let him hit me with a belt it's kinda my fault to.

  • You can't.

  • Tell your sister to stop asking you to spank her

  • Aim for the chunkiest part of her butt cheek and progressively get harder and harder. But only do what you're comfortable with too.