How can I make my boyfriend moan again?

The first time I went to lick his balls durning a bj he moaned and that was so hot. But never did it again when we are have sex or I'm giving him a bj or licking and sucking on his balls. How can I get him to moan again?
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  • Some people moan, some people scream, some people do nothing at all.

    I'll be perfectly honest and say that most bj's I've gotten make me feel good but not great. I love em and want em everyday. Most girls, sadly, are not that good at giving head, we still enjoy it, it's just not anything amazing. A bj isn't supposed to be like sex, it's done for fun, because you want to be a good gf/wife and please him straight up.

    However even for sex he just might not be a noisemaker. I'm not. The most you'll get out of me is breathing and every once in a while a few grunts and a damn! at the end.

    I've heard that making noises is a sign to your partner you're enjoying yourself but I never think to do it anyway. I'm too caught up in it to think if I should moan or not, besides of course I'm enjoying myself.

  • it was the novelty that got him. be creativity...make him shy...if you want to create an emotional reaction in him, you have to catch him of gaurd and do something he doesn't expect or hasn't accustomed to. maybe he's become accustomed to you licking his balls so stop and then he'll miss it

Most Helpful Girls

  • My boyfriend hardly ever moans. We've been together since February of last year and he's only moaned like 2 or 3 times ever lol. I like it because it lets me know he is well satisfied but I wish he would more often only not faking it because that would defeat the purpose. I am pretty quiet. I only moan softly but I can control myself and be totally silent if need be.
    He says he likes my moans but doesn't moan himself. He doesn't talk dirty, or anything. The only thing he does is stick his tongue out and sweats all over me and apologizes and that's about it lol.
    I guess if it is good enough to make noise he will and of not then whatever.
    He gets hard literally seconds after cumming so I know he likes alot, I just wish he was a little noisier.

  • You might think its hot. but, he might find it embarrassing.

    He may have done it from surprise, then now that he knows it might happen, he tries not to. A lot of people are uncomfortable moaning- I am- only do it by extreme surprise.

    Tell him you think it's hot. then if its because he's uncomfortable, he may relax. if he doesn't moan still.. experiment, & ask him what stuff you can do, that will make him fee the way he did when he first moaned.

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  • Ask him to moan. He likely only did it the first time on purpose since only the minority of males moan during sex

    • why do men not moan at all durning sex. Women want to know you are enjoying it too. How are we suppose to tell if a man is enjoying it?

    • The pleasure isn't intense enough for us to moan. I don't think it's possible for a guy not to enjoy sex, lmao

  • Tell him you need positive feedback when he's enjoying what you're doing. I doubt you care if he moans, gasps, twitches, or talks dirty as long as you get feedback that you're doing the right things.

  • Tell him you enjoy when he moans

    • Hi ;) Would you mind, relaying this message, to distant (above you) , for me? (thank you ;-) Distant, you may not moan, but you are hardly billions of other men, nor are you their spokesman & in my experience& that of my friends, & according to my guy friends. guys moan. Perhaps, you're not getting laid the right way, if its so weak,you never moan. Perhaps, you should try having sex with Women-or Men. Depending on who you are currently sleeping with. If anyone. I like your answer btw;)