Come on Alana, I know you've read my posts before...
99% of the time, if you have sex before being in a relationship, the guy is only going to think of you as a FWB, and won't be interested in a relationship, EVEN if he was somewhat interested before. I'm not saying it's right, but it is what it is.
When girls have sex, most of the time, they get attached and develop feelings. I know you KNOW this; you've been here long enough to know. And you also know that guys DON'T work that way. Sex can intensify feelings that were already there, but if there was no emtional connection before, sex won't create one for a guy.
It's *possible* that he was interested in a relationship all along, but chances are MUCH better that he just thinks you're a cool FWB for him to play with for a while, and you've kind of accepted that role by having sex outside of a relationship. If you want more, you should tell him, but you should also be prepared for him not to want that, and to prefer the FWB situation you have now. Sorry, but that's how it usually goes.
Yeah yeah, I know. But I couldn't careless if he prefers a fwb. He isn't getting any again, until I get something (nonsexual) in return.
Well, that's good, but the problem is that he's already gotten it once, so you've given up your position of strength in this negotiation. Next time, be a little smarter, because in a dynamic that often favors the man, that's one of the things that solidly gives YOU the power. I know it sucks to think of it that way, but at your age, you have to, because everyone else around you is. People get past the games and get more casual as they get older, but that will be a while for you yet.
Or maybe I was just really good ;) so now thatll make him want to date me
You shouldn't have sex so easily. Simple as that. If you're that interested in someone, never rush into it. Especially if you're a girl since many guys will lie to get a girl in bed (not most, mind you, just many, too many, even one is too many imo). So ya... I don't know in this case though as there are definitely different guys. Just... ask I guess.
It's kind of hard based on what you said, but you can tell, when the guy doesn't want to just have sex, he would want to cuddle with you, spend time with you, even when you have your period, he'll want to make you feel better and stuff. :]
If he still wants to hang out with you and not just have sex, he's still interested in you. But I wouldn't get my hopes up for a relationship if you're FWB.
Naw, we're not friends with benefits either. I'm gonna tell him its either a relationship and sex, or nothing.
You shouldn't have had sex with him if that's what you wanted. He'll probably think you're a typical girl, who after sex, gets super clingy.
Yeah I know haha. But what can I do now :S
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How fast does he leave after having sex with you?
What do you mean? Like when does he leave after sex? We've only hooked up once and he asked me to stay the night. So nobody left.
Ok, I was going to say if he made a mad dash for the door then I'd say he would not be in to you.
every time this happens an angel loses its wings
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