How common is it for a guy going down on you to also lick your butt in the middle of the deed?

I used to be in a serious relationship and always licked my girl's butt as foreplay and sometimes in the middle of licking her vagina. Now I have one friends with benefits and have recently had two one night stands and want to lick their butts if they're shaved but I'm kind of worried they'll think it's strange. So I'm asking is it a normal part of oral for a guy to lick both holes or do I need to proceed with caution on this and get permission first? I asked one of my guy friends and he said he does it when he feels extra dirty and no girl complained.
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  • Man you're watching too many p*rnos.

    haha but ehh it's all about trial and error bud. I've done that but only with a serious girlfriend. Some girls aren't open to the idea of licking in that area because they're embarrased or worried it wouldn't be too pleasant for you. Immagine if you were the girl and a guy wanted to lick your bum. Wouldn't you be thinking "sh*t, I hope its clean. I'm afraid he'd be disguested and not talk to me again."

    Most girls are pretty self consious about that stuff... I mean, why do you think they spend so much time prettying themselves up in the bathroom and take forever in the scented body lotion section at victoria secret? They love to feel desired and sexy.. they don't want that ruined by something distasteful.

  • I've never been with a girl that didn't love it once she experienced the sensation. Right after a shower (and given there are no unexpected "events" LOL) it's a very clean and erotic thing to do, as well as have done to you. I never make it a talking point. Shower together, give that little pucker a good scrubbing, and see what reaction you get. If it's not revulsion, just have at it while you're down there doing work in the neighborhood. The surprise is a good thing. I love helping a girl discover something about herself that she didn't know she liked, though many girls stimulate their own anus during masturbation, and already know. People need to relax and enjoy their body. Preconceived notions aren't always accurate.

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  • I love it and think it feels really good when my boyfriend does that. However, every girl is different. Some girls may not like it and think it's gross. So, I think you should at least ask first before doing this just to make sure she won't freak out when you go for her butt. Lol

  • It's pretty strange, I wouldn't do that if I were you, because if I were that girl I would like scream and run away, my butt is for explosive poops defiantly not for someone I care about to lick!

    • lol, I can tell with my nose if she hasn't showered since her last explosive poop or if she was just sweaty and then I won't go there. It doesn't gross me out if that hole isn't fresh because I understand she's human just like me but if she does happen to be fresh I want to lick her up and down her entire crack (both holes).

    • Hahaha OK ok fair enough I'm glad you're hygienic! Well you do it the smart way, I for one am just not into it but you seem senceable so I'm sure a girl could like it!

    • Haha I think you're secretly open to the idea if you just came out of the shower and felt really clean. Admit it, you're anonymous anyways lol. If a hot guy wanted to totally devour you and lick you all the way up and down would you stop him?

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  • Errr... no butt hole licking for me. I do think it's gross though I'm a hygiene freak around those areas. Just the thought. I know guys like it though...

    • I only do it if she is shaved and just showered in the last couple hours for obvious reasons. If you were in the shower or just a few minutes out of the shower would you still think it's really gross? I don't know why but I love licking it lol. It must be the taboo factor and my ex would go wild a few seconds after I did it.

    • I've never tried it or it's never happened to me so I don't know yet if I'd like it. lol. Shall see.

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  • You're worried they think it's strange? You're not worried whether or not it's CLEAN? If you enjoy doing it you should probably discuss this with your partners and find out what their thoughts are on the subject.

    • I think it's easier just do do in the heat of the moment than discuss it. How would I even bring it up? As far as clean goes I can tell if it's clean or not, I have a nose and eyes. I understand girls are not always clean because they're human so I don't hold it against them at all if I catch them at a less than ideal moment but I just won't go for butt lol.

    • I suppose you could discuss likes and dislikes sexually? Nothing wrong with talking about it if you haven't already. I understand what you're saying tho, just try it in the heat of the moment. Now what if she doesn't like it?

    • If I go down too low with my tongue I assume she'll just pull away from me or either pull my head back up with her hands and wrap legs around my head to keep me up to her clit. A few times my ex would just pull my head up if she felt too dirty and for whatever reason my nose didn't realize it and whenever I tried going back down she would pull me up. If she was clean clean she would let my tongue slide up and down her whole crack and we both loved it!

  • Very common and very normal

  • Just do it. I do

  • I've only had it happen a few times and assumed the guy got worked up in the moment and kinda "slipped." I don't think I would enjoy him focusing on that area, but I wouldn't kick him in the head or anything for it, but I'd probably stop him if he started going to town tossing my salad.

    • lol, I doubt it was a slip. Slips are how I eventually got my ex used to it and then eventually I would focus on salad tossing for a minute or three at a time. She liked it and let me and I loved it as crazy as that sounds.

    • I don't really like how it feels, personally. It was a "crawling skin" sensation to me... Other girls might love, it ... dunno.

    • You saying other guys do it makes me feel a little better and more normal lol. Maybe it's just not your thing though. Thanks a lot for answering!

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