How could I initiate sex without being awkward?

[Anonymous]

So I've known my friend Katie for about 5 years. We are pretty much best friends. We used to make out sometimes a few years ago and that was that. Just recently, I feel like she's been trying to come onto me. She tries holding my hand and has come over to spend the night and cuddle, but we've never had sex. She'll talk about sex sometimes and admire my sex posters that show positions. Ask what's going on in some of them. She even told me there's been times we could have had sex if I initiated Point is. I know she wants sex. But I freeze up when I could do SOMETHING. How could I initiate sex without being awkward? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY!

[crowman]

In your situation you don't need to know what to say you need to know what to do. If she spends a night and is in bed with you it is simple. You need to touch her the right way. When in bed hold her close to you look into her eyes and tell her she is beautiful as you run your finger through her hair. If she is comfortable with your touch continue. Take you fingers and gently move then across her arms, shoulders, and back. If she has not resisted continue to work your way down with your fingers. If her legs are exposed you may even want to even give them a gentle rub of the hand. Now this is where you will know for sure if you can go for it. Typically if a female does not want to have sex she will show some resistance when you start to touch her legs. It is not always a bad thing because it could be that time of month for her so don't panic if she shows resistance.

Depending on what she is wearing you work your way to the more intimate parts of her body. She is very worked up at this point and her breathing should be a little heavier suggesting she wants it now. This is when you move in and kiss her with some passion. At this point it is on! While you are kissing attempt to remove an article of her clothing. If she does not resist, well you know what to do next! This technique has never failed me.

You have it easy my friend since she already gets into your bed and you have a history of making out. The hard part is usually getting a woman into your bed! Hope this helps!

[Stratofever6]

It seems like she's giving all the right signals? Are you afraid of being rejected and possibly ruining your friendship?

invite her over, get some wine

Watch for her knees to be pointed in your direction, watch her play with her hair, if she touches her lips, and if her lips are beat red and she licks them. All she is waiting on is you to ask her

In the middle of some conversation just blurt out "do you wanna have sex or something I'm crushing you very hard right now? " shell be blowing up inside

play blood hound gangs "the bad touch" you and me baby ain't nothing but mammals so lets do it like they do it on discovery channel "Get With It Now! "

[ppfxxx]

Or if you want to be subtle George Michaels I Want Your Sex, "Sex is natural sex is good. . ."

[Lis4Loca]

I think one night when you guys are just cuddling you should be blunt about it. Kiss her and get her super horny and when your nibbling on her ear whisper "i want you" or something like that and see how she reacts.

[kiamia]

Try to kiss her and if she lets you just let it go, it should happen naturally if she is into that