How did you react after neighbors heard you having sex?

I live in apartment and yesterday me and my new girlfriend had wild sex and she got quite loud. It was exciting to hear her in the heat of the moment, but since then I can't help thinking how my neighbors must have overheard us as I can easily hear them here and there (not when they have sex). Now I'm wondering what's the best way to react when I see my neighbors. I had noisy sex before but nothing like yesterday, My girlfriend is quite vocal and we click well so the sex is really hot and wild. If that happened to you before give me some tips please.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You and your girlfriend need to talk and decide if you are going to continue as you are, or quiet it down. I am vocal and I certainly can have great sex and choose whether to be loud or not. We have kids and sometimes we sneak in some action while they are playing in the house. If we made a bunch of noise then, they would come check on us and ruin the moment.

    So, I personally have never been interested in having a neighbor hear me having sex. I can whisper all those naughty little things as well as scream them. I have had neighbors with loud TVs or music keep me up at night. I did not appreciate that. I sure wouldn't do the same to someone else, including loud sex.

    When I was first married we lived upstairs. We had our downstairs neighbor come up and let us know that her kids were hearing the squeaking bed and it was a problem. That was embarrassing and I don't know what she expected us to do. It wasn't the bed, it was the floor/ceiling construction and nothing we could fix. I think we did move our sex out to the couch or something along those lines because I just did not want her to talk to us again. I laugh about it now.

    • Yeah, that's the part I'm a bit nervous about, like talking about it and then it alters our way of doing it which feels so good. I think we'll just do it at her place for a while. She's renting a house so no problem there. I'll invite her back at my apartment for the night too, but later lol

    • Hey, if two people are in sync you can make anything hot. Like I said, whispering is sexy too. Keeping it quiet can be part of a role-play of having forbidden sex in your parents house or in public. Depends on how imaginative and kinky you can let yourself be.

  • In college I lived with 6 woman including me and we all had our own rooms which where back to back. The walls were paper thin to make a long story short we always heard each other fooling around or having sex. I would let it go if they approach you say something about you were just having some fun and it won't happen again. Unless they say something let it go and act like nothing happened.

    • yeah so far that'd be my choice, I think I'll try to avoid them for a few days lol

    • Good Idea!

  • Hold your head high, and just accept that you're going to get knowing looks from your neighbors if they acknowledge it at all, which honestly they might not. My neighbors always pretend they can't hear me even though I know they can cause I can hear them and I'm louder than her, lol

    • Yeah usually I tend to forget about it as you never know what others can hear. But there unless they are deaf they must have had an earful. If they heard the dirty talking they must have been shocked

Most Helpful Guys

  • If they don't say anything, just behave like you normally do. If they say something about it, it's up to you. I don't know what relationship you have with your neighbors, or what you want them to think of you. BUT, I suggest you talk to your girlfriend before going out, and facing your neighbors. Ask what she thinks you should do.

    • i don't know them much, so it's part of the awkwardness I feel I think. I'd definitely talk to my girlfriend before talking to the neighbors, I don;t want to ruin our sexual fun though. The good part is we don;t have the same problem at her place and we spend most time there.

  • Hopefully they aren't reacting like this:

    https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=3hq5ScfEUw8&feature=plcp
    • omg that's hilarious!

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  • my neighbors watch me and my gfs play by our pool all the time. at first it was just the husband, but I see him and his wife watching us now (in the summer obviously). they seem to enjoy it, so I think its kinda hot.

    • hot!

  • Smile and say "hi"...(:(:(:

    • lol yes, though if they weren't home and didn;t hear us they might think I'm a weirdo then

  • How bad are we talking here? How long were you going at it? And was it mostly her making noise or you too? Did it sound like sex or like someone being abused? And was it just the moaning and cumming that was audible or the banging too?

    • That was loud. Bed headboard banging against the wall, and her moaning super loud and screaming my name and"yes, oh my god, f*** me etc..." The part I'm most conscious about is all the dirty talking, because it got really raunchy. That part wasn't as loud then the rest so I hope they didn't hear it

    • Dude, seriously--don't sweat it. If anything, consider the episode an advertisement for your d!ck. You should just be friendly with your neighbors and don't mention it. But do try to make friends and get invited to their parties on occassion and invite them to yours. That way, if you do find yourself single again, your female neighbors can set you up with their hot friends who are looking for a good guy who can also f*ck like a champ.

  • Is it really that serious? Everyone has sex. You're an adult, and that's how we adults have fun. I've had wild sex when my bf's parents were in another room. I'm pretty sure they heard us and who cares because we're adults, pay rent and we hear them at 5am too. There is NOTHING to worry about. Did you kill anybody? Lol its just sex man.

    • Is it that serious? no. But yeah I'm a bit self conscious about it, especially the dirty talking. In the heat of the moment we get carried away. There are stuff I like in the bedroom because it's hot and fun, but I know others might find it too dirty