I used to be an exotic dancer. To give him the best dance ever, or one he'll remember, go get a sexy outfit, you can go to Castles, Triangles, any dancers place or victorias secret, whatever, heels, stelettos, or go barefoot, when getting the lingerie make sure its something that you know will make him go wild and something that will make you look and feel amazing. Do your hair and make up in a different way than usual. Clean up the room you're going to do it in. (Haha its so horrible when you do it in a messy room and you trip on something hahah) set the lighting, whether there's a nightlight, lights on, whatever, (I like doing it with candle light, it sets the mood and helps me think he can't see every flaw I have, if I'm having one of those days) pick out music you love. If you can dance to rock (love it) rap, classic, whatever makes you get in a happy hoppy sexy mood, use it. Its easier to have him sitting in a chair (in my opinion) before you get to him (have him within distance) do some little moves (practice in a mirror and carmen electras lapdance move videos can give you and idea) play with your hair while dancing, do some floor moves, look at him ofcourse those "bedroom eyes" are always known for turning men on, licking the lips is hot too, then when you finally make your way to him (in a slow sexy way) don't sit on him just yet, dance infront of him, touch your breats your neck, bend down infront of him to rub your legs and then smack your ass, after a little playing, and teasing, finallt sit on him, slowly, whisper/moan in his ear, lick his neck, let him smell your hair, grind, put his hands on you. (In the begining tell him "no touch" haha)
Then from there I'm sure you can figure out the rest..
If you don't feel comfortable watch videos, and don't worry if you jiggle, everyone does, and in his eyes you won't look stupid especially wearing lingerie he won't know the different.. Unless you trip!
Good luck
And have fun! Its soooo fun!
Thanks so much! and no I'm not worried about jiggle, I'm super skinny with big boobs so I love my body. But I just want to feel a little less self conscious about the fact that I'm doing it at all because it's my first time. but your advice really helped! I picked out lingerie recently and its hot!
Good I'm glad I helped! Have a blast!
P.s. Prepair for the best sex ever! LOL
Don't worry about the stripper appeal because you're not a stripper. Just be yourself... have fun and keep smiling at him. Just do some little cute dance that you're comfortable doing and that you're kind of good at, where you can wiggle your ass and boobs a lot.. but not overly. lol! Keep just beyond arms lengths as you run your hands over your body slowly while licking your lips from one end to the other. That'll all get to him big time so that when you start your lap dance he'll already be pretty much turned on. Wear something he's complemented you on before, and the same goes for how you fix your hair. If either of you happen to laugh, that's ok because this is suppose to be fun. But do continue. Make sure you have on music with the beat you like to dance to best.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You shouldn't worry about the laughing. Laughing can be the best part. Showing how comfy you are with each other. I'm sure no matter what you do. It would be the sexist dance his ever seen. Wither its cheesy, giggly or anything else.
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