How do I ask her if she is taking the pill?

I was hanging with this girl at my place the other night. I've been seeing for a couple months, and we had hooked up a many times but never had sex so I wasn't planning on anything serious happening. But after hooking up for a bit we just decided to have sex and I didn't have a condom so nothing was used. I felt way too embarrassed to ask her afterward if she was on the pill or not. I am kinda shy not very good at starting that conversation...help me please!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • That is something very important so yuo should ask no matter how awkward it may seem. Its also for your own safety to use a condom if you haven't had this girl tested. I think Itd be best if you asked her about whether or not she is on the pill next time you see her.

  • just ask! she will appreciate you asking, rather than not even caring if you knock her up.

    • Thank you for the response. I definitely do care about that, but in this case my shyness and inexperience in this type situation has affected my ability to act responsibly (ie ask her about bc). I am trying to think of the "right" way to bring it up out of the blue because it seems weird to start a conversation, after not talking during the day, with that question. Any help or ideas? It would be greatly appreciated.

    • next time you talk to her, just say "so I was so in the heat of the moment with you, I failed to ask if you are on birth control. are you?"

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you're not shy about having sex, you shouldn't be shy about saying "hey, are you on the pill?"

    It's not a big deal at all, any more than "hey, do you have any rubbers?" is a big deal.

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