How do I ask my guy to perform oral sex on me?

Do all guys like to perform oral sex? We know that they all like to receive it. I've been dating a guy for several months now and he has never performed oral sex on me and I would really like for him too. I'm not sure if maybe he's under the impression that I don't like it or if he doesn't like it. I've performed oral on him several times. I do I tell him or ask him to do this?
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  • It sounds to me that you have had quite a bit of sex with him. So you maybe able to pull the spice up the sex card. Tell him that you would really get turned on if he would go down on you. Tell him it would really get you in the mood to give him the best sex of his life, lol! I personal enjoy giving oral sex to a woman, but I do understand not every guy does. If he is willing to do anything for the relationship then he will at least attempt to please you. It is wrong (in my mind) to receive and not give. =)

    • I think that he's very shy in this department....we were dating for at least 2 months before we had sex for the first time and it's taken some time for us get really comfortable with one another..things are definitely progressing and I think that maybe he might be under the impression that I don't want him to...i'm just looking for a subtle way to ask.

    • Hmm... I'm trying to think of somethings my ex use to do. With me laying on the bed she kiss up my body, eventually passing my face and rub her chest in my face and practically end on her knees with her private in my face. I of course kissed every part of her that passed me and eventually end with kissing and licking her private. Another thing, could be to finger yourself and then lick your finger and repeat this but let him lick your finger. It may tell him it's ok for him to do it. Good Luck!

  • I would say that communication is important and if he doesn't know you want it then he might just be overlooking it. Honestly I love to give rather than receive but, if there's one thing that could turn that off is if a women doesn't smell clean or I fear that she's had multiple partners recently. Try just out right asking after using a fruit flavor douche that you know he would like. A man should be willing to please his women if she's willing to please him. Jeff

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  • Sorry wish I could give some advice here but I never had any luck with the last guy I was with, no matter what I did, or said, the next guy I am with will not get oral until I'm satisfied. I guess some guys just don't like to give it at all, but that does not stop them from asking for it.

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  • Sounds like he's selfish. You're with the wrong guy. Any guy that receives but doesn't give is selfish. You shouldn't have to ask him to. He should ask you if he can. Dump him and find a real man.

    • Well....he didn't exactly ask for it I just do it because I enjoy pleasing my man....I'm not usually left unsatisfied

    • Well instead of doing it, have him do it first. If he hasn't tried to, or offered to do it to you, then he's selfish. Plain and simple

  • he's probably dreaming of giving you oral, if a girl asked me to give her oral I would ask her how many times she would like it, and would she like it before or after sex