How do I ask my guy to shave his pubic hair?

[worldtraveler24]

my boyfriend doesn't "maintain down there." I shave for him, I think he should do the same, but how do I go about asking? I'm kind of shy, even after being with him for a while, and I don't want to just blurt it out awkwardly to him. there has to be an appealing way to ask him... if not to shave it all, at least trim it. any suggestions?

[Anonymous]

Though the girls have great suggestions, I have to say I believe I have a better one. Take the opportunity to give him one of the most seductive shavings of his life. While you have the shaving cream working up and down his shaft and the razor teasing its way around his pride and joy, then take that opportunity to tell him how sex and hot you think it is to see him shaved all the time. Also share with him the advantages of a clean shave by demonstrating it to him right after the shave. You will find that he notices just how much more sensitive things are afterwards, plus you show him how "aroused" you are to see him like that all the time...it should encourage him to take a little better care.

If he starts getting a little long after that...just drop him a little hint to "smooth things out for you" before he comes on over.

[TedEBear]

Just be straight forward. Let him know you do not like the fact is All natural and wish to discuss the possibilities. He may not want to shave everything like I myself do. I do find if I keep it "Clean" my woman is much happier and more likely to orally satisfy me than when I was natural. Like I said he may be reluctant. Offer to make it a sexy experience. Offer to trim it for him so you can show him what you like. Tell him you will follow up with a shower and make sure he is clean and that you will pay special attention to washing ALL areas of his body for him. If all else fails lay the fact straight out and tell him. If he expects you to be neat, clean, trim and/or shaved you expect the same !

This may help to entice him. Let us know how it goes.

[Taurean_Treasure]

Talk to him after sex and play with his hair down there and and tell him that "it bothers you" when you're giving him head (if you do and I sure hope you do because men love that and you're missing out too) and "feels actually gross to have all this hair in your mouth when you're tryin to concentrate on pleasing him" and ask him nicely to please shave it. If you want it trimmed them say trim, if you want it completely shaved, tell him to shave it, but you gotta say what you mean. Do not tell him about waxing it though.

[KimmyB]

I agree with Taurean, just tell him that it's a lot easier for you to do ur thing down there and if he is opposed to shaving, then tell him trimmed is just as good! I don't think that he will argue if you tell him he's going to get more bj's if he does it! :o)