How do I ask my wife to have sex with another man?

I would like to have my wife meet a guy she is attracted to and hook up with him and then come home and tell me all about it. I have told her this plenty of times and she still hasn't any body ever do anything like this how did you work it out? How can I convince her to go through with it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • She knows it's your fantasy, right?

    Maybe just ask her if you can incorporate role-play fantasy. She doesn't actually have to go out and screw other guys, she just needs to tell you she is, and adopt a "maybe I did, maybe I didn't, you'll never know" sort of attitude about it.

    Still though, if it's not something that turns her on, always using that fantasy during sex might wind up turning her off.

  • Well, for starters, this is ~your~ fantasy. She may be completely satisfied being monogamous with you, and have no desire to go out looking for random men to screw.

    Have you, y'know, asked her how she feels about the whole thing? Is it something she wants?

Most Helpful Girls

  • well it's nice to want things...as my father would tell me, there are people in hell wanting ice water but that doesn't mean they're gonna get it. She's obviously not interested in this fantasy you have why would you want to convince her to do something she's trying politely to avoid telling you she isn't into doing? cause if you push it you might not like what happens...

  • Do you have a psychological complex? It does exist where a man feels he is not able to preform well enough for his wife and so wants her to be pleasured by someone else. But it is very rare and the average female finds it creepy.

    • I can preform just fine for my wife I just like the thought of her having sex with someone else.

    • Why'd you ever get married in the first place?

  • If this isn't something she wants to do it is not going to happen. You had also better be careful not to drive your wife away from you and begin to resent you for wanting this fantasy!

    • what do you mean by that? resent me?

    • Yes I guess that would be close. If this is something that rupulses her she may begin to have doubts about her relationship with you any longer. You tested the waters and she declined so if I were you I would let it go unless she brings it up

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  • your wack buddy... I cannot believe your asking your wife to go give her flower up to another guy... Ur smoking something...

  • Maybe she doesn't want to do it? Has she said she wants to do something like this?

    I'd be okay with a MMF threesome with my girl... but I don't know about her just going to do it with another guy and me not there.

    What if she likes what she experiences and wants it more?

    • i want her to like it and do it more I would love it if she f***ed someguy everyday after work before she came home

  • Have some respect for your wife. She clearly does not want to do it so stop trying to make her.

  • Divorce her. And after a while she'll sleep with a nice guy who won't ask such strange things from her.

  • You can't. If she doesn't want to do it, she won't do it.

    You can't make her have sex with another guy just to please your cuckold fetish.

  • Ask her directly but research a good divorce lawyer first.