How do I convince him to have sex with me without a condom?

I really want the full experience but I dont' think he will risk gettting me pregnant, however I don't care! I want to have sex the natural way.
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  • Of course you don't care right now, you're not pregnant yet. But when you haven't gotten on birth control and have ended up that way, you'll think differently. So he's being responsible, and you're being a moron. There are other things, too. Do you know where he's been? Does he know where you've been? Maybe STD's and soemthing potentially killer like AIDS is enough reason for you to want a condom? Or something incurable like herpes, which means you'll have to live with it the rest of your life?

    Give me a break. I've had sex with and without condoms, and the condom doesn't make that big a difference. And sex "the natural way" isn't so great either. There's a lot of fluids and a lot of mess. And it would be one thing if you were at least on brith control.

    Hopefully he sticks to his guns, and he should. If he doesn't want to risk infection or you having a baby, he has that right. Thank God he's being smart about his life.

  • The ONLY time I would ever recommend having sex without a condom would be if you are in a serious, commited relationship-- where there is absolute trust. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, and when I first decided to have sex without a condom-- I made him go get tested for all STDs and show me the results. I also got tested and showed him the results. We both had never had sex with anyone before that without a condom, but I wanted to be completely safe. I was also on the pill for 6 months, consistently. We now never use a condom when we have sex because I am very responsible taking the pill and it is 99.6 percent effective in preventing pregnancy. The only reason I made the choice I made is because we live together and I'm pretty sure we will get married in the future, otherwise, I wouldn't have even thought twice about it.

  • First of all your still so young to even be thinking bout having sex without some kind of protaction. And its girls like yourself thinking its all great but look at how many single moms with babies left on their own from stupid mistakes. It shouldnt be your question on how to have sex WITHOUT condoms. wheres your thinking?

    You don't want a baby young, trust me I have been there before. It messes up your life!

    The natural way for you will come soon enough. wait it out. let it be with the right guy. always better to leave the WITHOUT condoms for a good trusting guy. you don't want nothing when you find "him" because most people don't want to be with someone who has a STD

    Glad he is thinking because it looks as YOU ARE NOT!

Most Helpful Guys

  • That's a good question because most all guys that aren't ready to be a daddy with you and your child yet will care very much! That happens to be a life long responsibility so unless a guy is ready to marry you he's not going to want to do it. Are you sure you're ready to have a child without getting any child support from a guy? But I guess there are guys out there that don't care just like you until it's too late. Maybe you can convince him by telling him you'll also have sex with some other dudes so that if you get pregnant no one will know who the father is. Personally, I think you're being completely irresponsible here because even if you don't care about yourself, you should at least care for how that will affect the child and the father.

  • of COURSE you don't care about him getting you pregnant. that is the entire problem! whether or not YOU care, he DOES NOT WANT A KID. there's LOTS of guys that will f*** you without a condom, you just unfortunately found a responsible one.

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  • MAYBE YOU CAN TRY HAVE SEX WITH HIM WITH THE CONDUM ON AND START MAKIN ALL DESE SEXUAL NOISES LIKE YOUR REALLY HORNY OR SOMETHIN AND IF HE IS REALLY INTO IT TELL HIM TO TAKE THE CONDUM OF BCKUZ You WANNA FEEL IT AND KALL HIM DADDY AND STUFF SO HE KAN KNOW You REALLY WANT IT.BUT BEFORE You DO THIS GO TO THE DOCTORS TO MAKE SURE UR OK MEANIN You DONT HAVE NO STDS JUS SO YOU GUYS ARE SAFE AND DONT PASS NOTHIN AROUND

  • Get yourself on the pill before risking this.

  • Honestly, you don't want to have sex with a guy who would do it without a condom. If he would do it with you, how many other girls has he raw dogged in the past? Be careful because diseases don't discriminate I would hate for you to learn the hard way.

  • You are an idiot! Just by the way you asked this question it is quite evident that you are not mature enough to have a baby, which is exactly what someone as stupid as you would end up with!

    • Did it ever occur to you that I WANT to have his baby?

    • How long have you been together?

    • Just go buy a puppy! At least you could give that to someone when you wake up! Do you thilnk you have the financial stability to have a child and raise it properly or stick it to the father who doesn't want it from the getgo? Where the HELL do you stupid kids come from????

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  • Actually, just about EVERY man will jump at the idea of sex without a condom. I don't know any man that actually likes condoms. They suck, to be honest. They take away the sensation. Just ask him to pull out. I'm almost 100% positive he won't mind.

    • ASK HIM TO PULL OUT? Did you never do sex ed.? If he doesn't want to be a father then pulling out isn't the right way to go.

    • I always pull out. Not a father =]

    • If you do the pull out method CORRECTLY, then it is 99% effective. The same percentage as condoms and birth control ;).

  • why don't you just find a guy that will

    get you pregnant and then leave you

    with a child?

    thats always fun

  • you want a baby!?

    get on the pill!

    do it natural but protected!

    there are other ways to prevent pregnancy without a condom,

    :]

  • make sure you are not wet, then tell him to try to fit it in without a condom, say it might fit better.

    Im pretty big, that is what ended up happening at a party, I don't know if intentional or not. Problem solved