How do I get my boyfriend to masturbate in front of me?

I'd like to watch my boyfriend masturbate in front of me... thing is, both of us are shy and I don't think I can bring myself to outright ask him to do so! How should I go about doing this in an un-awkward sort of way? I think it would be hot, and I would return the favor! And guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend wanted you to do this?
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  • Make it a sexual game... sit him in a chair, tell him he's allowed to do anything he wishes as long as while this "game" is in session his butt stays attached to the chair and the chair stays where it's at.

    Now you step out of arms reach of him and start to do a striptease, once you get down to your underwear, start touching yourself... then tell him you want to see it, and then once it's out, you want him to touch it... stroke it... want to see him cum... as long as you stay out of reach of him, he's gotta' get that thing done himself. Just keep the reason for him to be doing it going with you, give him a reason to want to do that for you and I'm sure he'll play along.

    If you are shy, get over it quick, he's with you for a reason, step out of that shy box and realize, if he didn't want you, he wouldn't be with you. If you can coax it out of him by being naughty yourself and playing a game like this... I'm sure there'll be more times such as this one in the future and it'll make sex much more fun as well!

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  • Well, you have to find a way to help yourselves feel more comfortable around each other. Being fully comfortable around each other (including sexually) plays a big role in sex, and other sexual activities. Start slow: Do romantic/emotional things like lots of touching (non-sexual), cuddling, sharing your feelings with each other, and kiss passionately. Communicate more. After a while, you should feel better about touching more sexually, talking about dirty stuff, and making out. Then, he should feel comfortable enough to do more kinky stuff like masturbate in front of you. If he is interested (ask him), you go first, and masturbate in front of him.

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  • I would love it my behalf to masturbate from me no reason to be shy it comes naturally just like a hot guy meets a find sexy lady he likes..

  • I would just ask, or just start doing a hj and ask him to take over and say how hot you find it.

    • how long have you been with him?

    • About 2 and a half years...

    • This may work but he'll be a little disappointed that you stopped at first, lol.

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  • See, the gals say ask. So do I, but you say you are to shy. Well, then try the hj, see if he will finish for you.

    I get hot when my gal masturbates, and usually do it for her. From what I gather, most guys figure gals don't want them to masturbate, and don't. Most gals I have known want to see it done.

    Got a communication problem here, I think.

  • ask

  • I personally feel really exposed during masturbation, so to do it in front of someone would give me a heart attack. While at the same time, I could care less if I'm naked around my girlfriend, and am not the least bit shy about sex and am willing to try pretty much anything. But I guess for me, masturbation is personal, and unless I'm pulling out to finish myself off on (insert body part here) I would be very reluctant to just masturbate without any sex involved in front of my gf

    • How would you feel if it was a part of foreplay? I don't intend to just sit there and say "Okay... now masturbate!" Haha... that would be terribly awkward. But would you feel better if the girl and you were getting hot and heavy and she put your hand on yourself? Or is that still too personal?

    • See that I think I would feel better about, sure if it starts as foreplay, I think I would be more inclined to continue myself without your assistance

  • I would do do it, it's something I wanna do with her, I'm just to shy to bring up the idea myself. Have you asked him yet? How would you like your man to ask u?

    • If I was in your situation, I'd first get her going, then put her hand where you want it. If she pulls away, put it back and murmur something encouraging, or tell you that you want to watch. If she doesn't want to continue, don't force it obviously. Maybe try again another time... she may just be surprised the first time, but will definitely continue thinking about it and may be willing to give it a go later on.

  • I would try bringing it up in a semi-public place so there's less pressure. Tell him how much it turns you on thinking about watching each other masturbate. If it was me, I would want to go somewhere private right away to do it.

  • Ask him to see if he'll show you how he masturbates. You can tell him that you've never seen a guy play with himself before (that doesn't even have to be true). The only reasons I can think that he wouldn't want to masturbate in front of you is that either you've never been naked in front of each other before or he may not even masturbate (not likely but still possible).

  • first you give him a hand job and when he is recharged ask him to do it...its simple.

    Or your point of view is also perfect, that it would be a part of foreplay! nothing personal about it at all...

  • i would love it. one way you could do it is start to give him a bj or hj and say that you want him to come on your face if you like that and get him to take over

  • I think you've got the right idea about it. During foreplay take his hand and place it where you want it. Help him for a while, then coach him to finish by himself. It would definitely work for me.

  • Just ask him.