How do I get my boyfriend to wear a condom and leave it on ??

my boyfriend hardly wears a condom and half the time when he dose he takes it off anyways I am not on the pill or anything because we live in different states right now, this makes it less fun to me because I'm worried and he knows this how do I get him to stop this or is there so other thing I can do to protect us if so how can I bring it up to him? help we go on vacation in a few weeks for two weeks and I want to have fun
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hes knows it all he wants me to marry him and he wants kids he's a grate boyfriend and he is just getting back from deploymeant so it is going to be very hard to with hold sex
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  • Well, you could tell him that his other option is to get a vasectomy.

    Ultimately though, he should be respecting your feelings about this. I understand that it can be hard to put your foot down, and I also understand that he's generally a good boyfriend. But this is a serious issue, and you need to stand up for your body. Remind him that there's plenty of time for kids in the future, and tell him he HAS to wear a condom. Period. You can try extra thin ones if he complains that they interfere with sensation, and you can also consider using other forms of birth control instead. But it's important to establish cooperation with him about this. He can't just do whatever he wants when it puts both of you at risk. Have a serious discussion with him and remind him how important it is to be responsible- especially if he knows he wants kids.

  • I would immediately get up and leave how disrespectful. I would also tell him I want his baby so bad to come now since I was ovulating and tell him you can't wait for (list all the horrible things babies do). Also its kinda irresponsible on your part if you want to have unprotected sex to not be on the pill. So what if you are in different states you think women go off and on it with each boyfriend and one night stand they have? No they stay on it to keep from getting pregnant regardless.

  • That's irresponsible as hell. Tell him wear a condom or no sex. If he takes it off in the middle of sex, stop having sex. If he's not smart enough to know how important it is, that's really the only way to get him to do it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Ask him if he's reading to raise a child with you.

    If he says no, then tell him that he has to keep the condom on.

    If he continues to take it off...then frankly it's stupid to continue to have sex with someone so irresponsible and unable to understand the logic of the above question.

  • when he starts to take it off whisper in his ear that you think you 'have something'

    • wow thank you for an accually answer unlike these d*** f***s

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  • Stop opening your legs for him.

    • It's not hard to withhold sex when you say no. If he forces it out of you, that's rape and that would mean he's not much of a boyfriend.

  • Stop f***ing him. NOW.

    Why are you having sex at all with someone who does not respect you ? Are you trying to get pregnant? If not dump him.

  • buy a really sharp knife...

    Tell him if the condom comes off...

    You'll put his penis back in it...

    unattached to his body...

    • @update It is your body.. are you ready for kids? even if he bails on you? You have the va-jay-jay, you set the rules for entry... no condom.. lots of oral... or he can sleep in an ice bath...

    • lol that is cruel !

    • only if he is cruel to her.. if he keeps the rubber on, no one gets hurt...

  • Threaten him with no sex.

    He should be responsible enough to wear a condom, especially if you aren't on birth control!

  • Tell him no sex without one.

  • Dump him and stop having sex. A guy who takes a condom off wo your permission during sex and you still are sleeping with him? Both of you sound like idiots