How do I get my guy to enter me without making it too difficult?

I'm a bit tight down there, how can I get my guy to enter me without making it too hard on me and him? How can I relieve that tightness?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Take your time. Don't rush into anything. Use plenty of lubrication. Did I say take your time. You may have him enter you slowly and only part way and then be still (i.e. no pumping) until you get used to it and then have him either go in a little further or pull out add more lube and then go in a little further.

    Also, relax if you get tense, uptight, or worried then you will probably start to clamp down again making it rougher.

    Foreplay will also help you to get into the mood a little better. When you are turned on you have a tendency to let the chemicals flow through your body and will be able to enjoy it more.

  • Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.and when you think you have relieved your tightness.foreplay! The more aroused you get, the more accepting your body will be to him. Also you may want to use lube or give him oral shortly before he goes in to allow him to slide in gently, but this really only applies to sex without a condom.

Most Helpful Girls

  • try this position: think missionary, but instead, bend your knees, spread your legs, and raise them up in the air. Hold them steady or have him do it. It became easier for my guy to enter me the first time in that position. But I don't know, that my own personal preference. :)

    Plus you have to be relaxed, sexually aroused, and intimately connected to your lover :)

  • the tightness is a natural thing. but you can have him finger bang you to loosen you up a lil

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  • Finger yourself, f*** yourself, whatever. Which you should be doing already.

  • Use plenty of lube and go slow. You can slip your hands out of handcuffs with lot of lube.

  • Take your time and make sure you're ready. Use lots of spit (I like it better than lube) and go slowly (at least at first!) Relax and don't be tense. Subconsciously you could be flexing your kegel muscles without realizing it. Try to have fun and don't worry about it. Your body will tell you when it feels right to you.